should i tell her stay were you are at or let her move back in the home we have and i still love her but i know she has cheated on me before she moved out need you hlep
2006-08-24 06:50:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she has told me she wants to work things out .between me and her i just ? myself
2006-08-24 07:16:28 · update #1
You never get a better one the second time around... I've been through this... and I would just tell her to stay where she is.
2006-08-24 06:52:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the question you have to answer yourself.
1) Do you really love her ? Or you just want to be loved again by her because she adbandon you before ?
2) Can you forgive her for what had happened ? Consider she may have done more than what you already know ?
3) What do you expect the relationship between you and her ? Just friends or something husband and wife thing ?
4) Why does she come back ? because she need shelter and support ? Or she found you again ?
Every person has different threshold of acceptance and values. You have to make the decision yourself.
2006-08-24 13:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you still care for her I think your first step would be to sit down with her and have a really good talk. Get all your feelings out in the open, including the fact that you no longer trust her. Then take it from there. I don't know all the circumstances of your situation, but with kids involved, and the fact that you say you still love her, it sounds to me that taking her back might be worth taking one more chance on. Best of luck.
2006-08-24 13:54:18 · answer #3 · answered by curious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHe moved out and took your kids and had affairs and you STILL
"love" her? You sir a fool for love. Why does she want to come back? The answer should guide your path. Is she just out of money and boyfriends, or does she really want to patch things up, or does she want you to take the kids so she can have more fun. You need answers mi amigo.
2006-08-24 13:58:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only reason why she wants to come back home is because the guys she was with left her... I wouldn't let her back into your house, but you should remain friends for the kids...
It's time for you to move forward not backwards
2006-08-24 13:55:58 · answer #5 · answered by mandylove020 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as it is not seeing your kids, you are better off with out her in your life. You would be better off to tell her to stay put, and you go file for divorce and then ask for partial to full custody of the kids so that way you can have a relationship with them. I wish you the best of luck
2006-08-24 13:54:46 · answer #6 · answered by Just Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are gong to bake a home, I suggest 350 degrees for 1 hour and don't forget the chocolate frosting.
2006-08-24 13:52:40 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let her move back only on a friend basis for the kids.No SEX OR OTHER MARRIAGE ****.seperate rooms and all that !!!No telling how many men have been up in her while she was gone.You know there is AIDS out there and ****.
2006-08-24 13:56:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh hell no!!!!! don't let her come back, for what? so she can leave you again? I don't think sooooooooo!!!! I wouldn't 2yrs gone past you can't still love her!!! with in those 2 yrs have you ffound someone?
2006-08-24 13:57:13 · answer #9 · answered by Gianna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still love her take her back. You know what she did and you are thinking about taking her back because you still love her.
I think you already answered your question.
2006-08-24 13:53:54 · answer #10 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋