If I lust after other woman does this mean I don't truly love my wife?
2006-08-24 06:32:34 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You can LOOK at the menu, as long as you don't order.
2006-08-24 06:33:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. Loving your wife, you would not lust after anyone.
You are being tempted into sin. Don't give temptation an invitation into your mind.
A thought becomes an idea, An idea becomes a daydream. The daydream becomes a fantasy, The fantasy becomes an obsession. Then when the time is convenient, or at the first possible opportunity, You will be caught up in SIN. LUST Guilt, Excitement, It's something New, Someone New. "My wife really wasn't who I thought she would be. You are so much better for me." Then comes disease, pregnancy, divorce. Lawyer bills, Alimony payments, Broken homes and Shattered Hearts. And A river of tears.
If you could do this to your wife. You Don't Love Her.
You would rather entertain selfish thoughts to get yourself all excited. Spend your energy on making your marriage better and your wife happy.
Understand that you won't have to wait until you die to go to Hell.
You will be in Hell right here on Earth. And you will bring so many people along for the ride. By your bad example you will have no idea how many people have made the wrong choices.
Fantasise about your wife. No Girlie magazines. Stop the thought as soon as it happens. Tell the thought "Go away, I love my wife as Christ Loves the Church. He gave His life fore the Church" I will give my entire mind, emotions and body to my wife.
Case Closed.
Count Your Blessings every Day.
Tell your wife 5 ways she is special everyday. More when the opportunity comes up.
If your wife is having a difficult time with something and can use a hand. Offer to help.
Tell her that you Love Her and only her and that you are the luckiest man in the world. Treat you wife as if you are still trying to win her over. You'll never have a heed to look in another direction.
God Bless you, ;-)
2006-08-24 06:34:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love and lust are 2 very different things. You can still love your wife and lust after anyone else if you allow yourself. Just don't do it and you won't have a problem. I hate this topic myself b/c men seem never to be satisfied. You could be the most perfect wife on the planet and guys will still look around like they aren't satisfied. What is wrong with you guys? There are much greater things in this life other than sex. Why can't you just lust after life?
2006-08-24 06:37:06 · answer #3 · answered by Ferosia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it's possible and it does happen. But don't confuse lust with love. what do you see in Mrs. Lust? Is it something that she does that you would like your wife to do? If so it may be time for a talk or to get a little more creative in your relationship. Just remember your wife can do the same thing that this woman does. Afterall she married you. Don't chance your marriage for an easy lay. If she is that easy for you who else is she easy for. You know what you got at home. But you don't know what you're getting in the streets. Choose wisely.
2006-08-24 06:41:55 · answer #4 · answered by tgirl2ya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust can be a big problem for some ppl. If you're just window shopping then it's no big deal. The problem arises if you follow through on the feelings for other women!
You stand to lose your wife and repent at leisure, because it does happen that men come home tail between their legs after an affair{ women too} and find they've blown it big time. 'You never know what you've got 'til it's gone' is a good warning for us all, so is 'the grass is always greener on the other side'!! When you get there you find the greener side has moved across!!
2006-08-24 06:43:34 · answer #5 · answered by xbkw46 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course, you are a thinking living person who notices other attractive people around you ! I have an awesome man in my life, but I lust after other men as well.Look, just because you lust doesn't mean you will act on it ! Lust has nothing to do with love.
2006-08-24 06:56:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! You made a vow to love her and no other, desire for your wife and only her is what you are suppose to have. When you "lust" you desire those other women. Lust leads into action " Adultery" and Unfaithfulness, You also begin to see faults in your wife and blame her for your actions, which leads to divorce! How would you feel if your wife lusted after other men? PUT yourself in her place! When you are with her you would wonder if she is thinking about them and comparing you to them. "Then" doubt and mistrust come, you believe that she has been unfaithful and accusation of adultery start to creep into your mind. It is an ugly experience, That is wrong!!! Now if you take notice of other women's beauty and go no further that is "OK"! Do not throw away your marriage, it is something special. If you have kids; think how it will affect them. It will DESTROY them! THINK CAREFULLY!!
2006-08-24 11:01:09 · answer #7 · answered by SAM 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hell no, it just means that you are a real man. Not to mention that you are still alive. Thee day that you don’t lust after an attractive well built sexy woman is the day you know you’re dead.
no it doesnt. All men lust for other women or we wouldnt have porn or playboy. Eveyone can look at the menu but just don't order. Do you actually think your wife doesnt think about doing other guys? if you think not, Your clueless
2006-08-24 06:54:26 · answer #8 · answered by ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theirs really no right or wrong answer. U married that woman u said u love but in the vows it doesn't say u can't lust 4 another woman it say's will u love,respect and cherish this woman till death do u part not u can't lust 4 another woman. but also u have 2 remember that marriage is a commitment that u married her/him because they fullfill all ur needs and that u truly love that person
2006-08-24 06:42:15 · answer #9 · answered by youngknowledge1987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lusting after another woman is natural. Holding on to the lust can result into a problem. Remember who you gave your life to and dont let a few lustful feelings get in the way.True love is a cord that cant be broken easily
2006-08-24 06:36:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
How can you be a man and NOT lust after other women?
Whether or not it is ok depend on your definition of lust. If by lust you mean you find a certain woman attractive and would like to sleep with her if you were not married, then that is ok. If by lust you mean you find a certain woman attractive, and want to sleep with her even though you are married, and actually take steps to do that by flirting with them or whatever, then that is not ok.
2006-08-24 06:44:17 · answer #11 · answered by barter256 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋