so was he cheating on his girlfriend with you or did it occur before they got together. tough situation. don't be surprised if he doesn't take it so well... I'd call him up, tell him you have a situation that needs his attention... (well, the both of you have a situation) and let 'er fly. Don't look for a shout for joy.... let it sink in, he may need some space, and then talk about how this is going to play out.... wheter he'll go to appointments with you, what contribution is he going to make as far as helping with the baby furniture, etc., and as far as his girlfriend goes.... she'll be hurt, she'll be pissed.... keep in mind though, that if she stays w/ him she's going to be a part of your child's life.... be nice..... and good luck
2006-08-24 06:34:27
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answered by rachael 3
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Well,what does this guy mean to you?If you knew he had a girlfriend but you disconsidered,and slepted with him anyways,now you find yourself pregnant.Do you want him to resond to your situation?If he is a responsible person he will step up to to his duties as a parent.At the moment like you said,you are not involved with him but dear you are forever constructing a relationship with him...with your pregnancy.He is going to be in your life like it or not.So be honest with yourself and him and simply tell him you are pregnant.There is nothing to be afraid of.Go about telling him the same way you slept with him....with out any thought or regrets. Much luck to you.
2006-08-24 06:54:36
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answered by Anonymous
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Over the phone and when he is not with his present GF. Also, consult a lawyer, even though you two are not together, he is responsible for the child too. Get paternity and Child support set as soon as possible..
2006-08-24 06:26:03
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answered by Common Sense 5
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Let him know once you are at least 4 months pregnant. And if he doesn't take it very well, wait untill the baby is born and have a test done to show he is the father of your baby.
2006-08-24 06:26:18
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answered by smiley 2
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her child what how is this possible.
i dunno have an ice cream cake made at dairy queen with
Suprise im havin your baby
just tell him
2006-08-24 06:24:58
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answered by doc2be 4
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