See right now my life is up sided down & guys act as if they like me.But now i need to think of what my kids think about the people i bring home.My son hates his new stepmom & he wants me 2 be happy.I am they are my life & a lot of guys do not get that why?
2006-08-24 06:19:56 · 1 answers · asked by ~One~Of~A~Kind~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Because in the end people assume that the intimacy is the relationship, when in fact its the friendship that matters most. So if you really want someone who likes you for you its time to put away want societies thinks and make a best friend first. That way you know they love you for you and let the intimacy slowly come into play. You can never hold it off for "too long" that's relative. It should flow with it. Also look at a persons purpose in life, if they don't have one that fits yours or at the very least jives with yours then boot them. Theres no way you and a mate could come up with the same means to met the goals of the relationship but you should both have the same goals in mind. Keep in mind best friends share everything so anyone being selfish with any part of themselves(the good and the bad) isn't a friend and damn sure shouldn't be your lover!
2006-08-24 07:21:46 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋