she met him at work, he was her boss. i hate to say but hes not good looking, however he has a great character. she knew how much money he makes. alot! when i confronted her about their relationship, she told me he's not her type. she has nothing to do with him its just rumors! a week later he moves out and in with her. I find out he takes her on a shopping spree and a trip to Mexico with other co-workers. its been a year and a half their still together. she claims to love him now. ofcourse he supports her financially. although she does work. do you think she really loves him or the money. Remember hes butt ugly and she's cute. I know looks dont matter, but he was married with kids and she didnt care to be with him.how long will they last?
2006-08-24 06:19:22 · 33 answers · asked by girluknow2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As long as her let's her continue her shopping sprees and taking her on expensive trips she will continue to 'love' him. I would love to see how she acts if he decided to cut her off for awhile...She would probably change her tune immediately. Fact is, that he will either see her greed, or she will end up cheating (If she isn't already) on him and breaking his heart. It all comes around in the end...
2006-08-24 06:23:15 · answer #1 · answered by Brea1243 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
They may last for a month, a year or 20 years from now. That's not the question you should be asking. The question is will they be always be happy while they are together and the answer is no. He left you for her chances are he will leave her for someone else. If he doesn't he'll just cheat on her. You and your kids are better off without him. You are a queen and if she if fact is butt ugly you shouldn't lower your standards to him. You should be treated like a queen all men aren't worthy or priviledged to be with you. Cut your losses and find someone who wants to be with you and your kids. Life is full of surprises. Don't get discouraged sometimes we have to kiss a couple of frogs to find our true prince but once we find him he will definitely be worth the wait. You really should thank her for taking all the hell out of your life that your husband put you through because now she is living through that hell. But hers is much worse because she has to take his crap because of the money. That's what he pays her for payback is a b-tch. Afterall that's what she is right?
2006-08-24 06:34:52 · answer #2 · answered by tgirl2ya 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he cheated, take everything you can get. You have children to raise and THEY should be your focus. Who cares if that no good butt ugly man and that gold digger stay together for 2 weeks or 20 years? They deserve each other. He LIED to you and he slept with another woman before coming home to you. That's WRONG. One day you will find someone to treat you like a queen and that's what you deserve!
2006-08-24 06:29:00 · answer #3 · answered by ebell0212 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't put up with all of this crap from your husband. You just be a good loving mother. Divorce him for being unfaithful. Your love probably runs deep for him, but, frankly, he's not worth it honey. I don't know how long they'll last, but even if he breaks up with her and comes crawling back to you, you can bet he'll be after some other woman again soon enough. Get away from this man and find someone who will love you and care for you and NEVER deceive you. Counseling can help as well.
2006-08-24 06:22:41 · answer #4 · answered by Kiara 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're right, looks don't matter to a lot of women. You don't know that she wasn't interested in him for sure. That's only what you were told. You don't know what she was really thinking and/or feeling at the time.
I think you need to stop worrying about their relationship and move on. It's been over a year now. Obsessing about it is not going to help you any. You really do need to move on.
I'm sorry you were hurt.
2006-08-24 06:24:50 · answer #5 · answered by sahm2boys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that shes giving him something that he couldn't get from you. Considering tht they have been together for 1 1/2 yrs I would say its still going strong. You need to move on too. Its not healthy pining for someone who no longer loves you. There are so many attractive unattached males out there, go find one. You never know you could find a gorgeous hunk that you can't wait to be with.
2006-08-24 06:24:25 · answer #6 · answered by teulonbranchlibrary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some of these people answering this question are such idiots. it is not your fault no matter what you did or did not do ok. a commitment is a commitment and a vow is a vow. there's never an excuse for cheating, NEVER.
now, i can tell you that if you just bide your time, you will see that the two of them will be miserable. I have seen it happen more times than I can tell you. just be patient. they will both get what's coming to them, you'll see. mark my words, and it's gonna be so sweet to see them several years from now just a miserable as miserable can be. go ahead and get glad because it's gonna happen, it always does, ALWAYS.
2006-08-24 06:48:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is so "butt ugly," then what are YOU doing with him!?!
Since "she" is so cute and you cannot understand why she would be with an "ugly" man, does this mean you also "butt ugly?"
Do you love him?
Did you marry him for his looks, money or charm?
How long did your marriage last?
If you think he is so "butt ugly," chances are he knows how you feel. How long would you be willing to stay with a person that thinks YOU are "butt ugly" and also knows you make a LOT of money?
Remember, love knows no boundaries... old or young, rich or poor, ugly or gorgeous.
Personally, it sounds to me as if he finally woke up to the fact his wife stays with him because he makes "alot" of money.
2006-08-24 06:31:52 · answer #8 · answered by nothingtangible 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I think she is with him for the money. I think they'll last a while if she is a gold digger. They never stop. Be well, and find a better man for yourself, you don't deserve to be treated like dirt. You have done SO much. Gave birth to children, raised them, took them to school, been a WIFE, the whole nine yards. Go for someone who treats you how you should be treated: Like a princess. You don't deserve this BS from him. Let him have his b****, you can do SO much better.
2006-08-24 06:23:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know what? This isn't about looks and this isn't about you and what he sees in this younger woman. It's all about him and HE has the problem, which is low self-esteem
People usually seek out others (younger or older) because they have something in their character that isn't working for them.
I would divorce the pig if you haven't already and get everything you can. Let him pay alimony, child support, the mortgage on your house, whatever.
Remember he's HER problem now, and he'll eventually do the same to her, because the problem lies within him.
2006-08-24 07:30:12 · answer #10 · answered by Big Bear 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋