2006-08-24 06:03:06 · 20 answers · asked by diana 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Only you can answer that question.
2006-08-24 06:04:50 · answer #1 · answered by yzerswoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I left my husband at the begining of the year and found out I was pregnant shortly after involved in a new relationship. I know it's hard to decide what to do. But regardless of the father situation, that baby is still YOURS. Think of it this way, this tiny, innocent baby growing inside you has only two people to care for it once it is born. You and the father. If the father isn't man enough to step up to the plate, why would you step down? Being a mom is the biggest blessing you will ever experience. Don't give up. Email me if you want to talk.
2006-08-24 06:49:18 · answer #2 · answered by SAMANTHA M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe your asking this. You are choosing to have sex with someone who is not committed to you. How dare you wonder if you should have your baby. You know that if you have sex you can get pregnant. As far as I'm concerned a woman should be able to make her choice. BUT her choice is made when she has sex. Once a child is conceived, the choice has already been made. Your having a baby. Grow UP.
2006-08-24 06:12:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your age, your maturity level, the amount of support that you have in your life. Having a baby is not something that's easy and it will change your life forever. Going through it alone is not impossible but it can be very difficult.
I can't tell you what to do but I do think you should tell your ex boyfriend that you have become pregnant with his child. While you may or may not keep the baby, the answer that you get from him may or may not be a negative one and you won't know until you talk to him.
My prayers are with you and take some time for yourself to make the right decision for you.
2006-08-24 06:08:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should have the baby, be responsible for your actions you and your boyfriend. If he was mature enough to have sex he should respond the same way with the baby. Hey if he don't want any part on this, you wont be the first nor the last to be a single parent. Good Luck
2006-08-24 07:09:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to know how old you are also? But no matter the age this is YOUR baby. I do KNOW that you should HAVE this child. There are SOOSOOO SOOOOOO many couples out there who CANNOT have children and would give anything to have a baby. So deffinatly have the baby if not for yourself for another family who are heartbroken about not having children.
2006-08-24 06:09:05 · answer #6 · answered by littlemermaideku 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have sex which you know that babies come about from having sex. You should never have sex with a man you have no intentions of being with. Keep the baby since you took it upon yourself to have sex knowing what happens. He is not your boyfriend if you are not a couple...he is just someone you have sex with.
2006-08-24 06:05:47 · answer #7 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
In my opion I belive that everyone should have the right to choose what is right or wrong. If you belive that it is ok to abort your baby because you feel that the burden of raising it would be to great for you to deal with; then do so. But keep in mind that you are not concidering that the baby might not choose to die for the same reason. When you don't think of what it might become in it's life; like mabe a doctor who saves many lives, then the decision is easy. But please keep in mind that your decision just might effect more then your social life. I do not fear what others might think of you participating in the murder of your unborn child, but I do fear what you may do to your self when you realize that after you make the decision you cannot undo it. Our knees make some of the best decisions. All we have to do is fall to them and pray. God Bless
2006-08-24 06:37:11 · answer #8 · answered by sarahadams_77 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
keep the baby you will hate your self for the rest of your life if you dont if you have it and adopt the baby out you will still feel guilt but at least the baby will live/grow up in a loveing home and perhaps you can stay in touch with your son/daughter so he/she doesnt have to wonder why mommie gave them up
2006-08-24 06:13:35 · answer #9 · answered by steamroller98439 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Place your baby up for adoption to a couple that will provide your child with an example of a loving home through commitment and marriage.
2006-08-24 06:05:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, its not the babies falt that you two are not together. If you two were having sex while broken up you probably still like/love him so stay together with the baby.
2006-08-24 06:05:38 · answer #11 · answered by chikita4652 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋