we have been together for seven i love him so much he tell me also he love me but when i came to marrage he don't want to marry me and we leave in different country please help me what shall i do please now i am in the middle of no where....help
2006-08-24 05:49:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sucks, but perhaps it's time to move on.
2006-08-24 05:50:36 · answer #1 · answered by Emily 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Open your eyes and recognize when the exit sign has been turned on. First off you live in different countries, he's probably already married or he's cheating. You have been with him for seven years appreciate the time together and move on. Life is to short to play the waiting game.
2006-08-24 13:30:15 · answer #2 · answered by LaToya L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If possible surprise him with an unexpected visited see how he reacts. Use the time together to honestly discuss both you'lls future as a couple. Tell him you need to know where you stand with him, if it is a waste of time tell him let you know then you both can end it on a good note and be friends.
Good Luck
2006-08-24 13:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is not ready for marriage and just because he's not doesn't mean that he doesn't love you. Just not ready to make a life time commitment. Besides you live in different countries, do you really think that would work, or are you willing to go to him.
If marriage is something that you really want and he is not willing to give it to you, I suggest you move on.
2006-08-24 12:59:18 · answer #4 · answered by Monie D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex bf i was with didn't want to marry me either we were together for like nearly 4 years..
we lived together .. and i suppose it is just a peice of paper.. and he always used my bad credit as one reason ...
now were not together for reasons that aren't relevent..
but my advice would be.. if marriage is something you really want.. than perhaps you need to find a new boy who will want to marry you when the time is right..
2006-08-24 12:53:24 · answer #5 · answered by steph 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well honey if he doesnt want to marry you then i would move on, it will be hard but u deserve someone that wants to be with you forever not just for a lil while then leave u
2006-08-24 12:56:27 · answer #6 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to move on.
2006-08-24 12:51:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him an ultimatum. Either you marry me or I'll leave you.
dont waste your time
2006-08-24 12:51:10 · answer #8 · answered by ldkurn l 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you can't do anything at all. you can't force things to happen.
he either wants to marry you or not. there's no in between. yea or nay..which does he prefer? well he said it already. so move on...next!
2006-08-24 12:56:02 · answer #9 · answered by mimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If marriage is important to you, and he has told you he will not marry you, then, you stay at your own risk, which is to be unmarried..... simple.
2006-08-24 12:54:46 · answer #10 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and find your true love. He is not the one
2006-08-24 12:52:37 · answer #11 · answered by Mit 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋