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feel like everybody hate me...

2006-08-24 05:48:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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sounds like youre depressed, everyone is here for a reason we all go through ups and downs and its normal to feel sad but if you continue feeling how you feel then it may be time to see a professional or a counselor to talk to, who can make you realize that you are important and that there are people in the world who love you be it family or friends, if you need someone to talk to email me, through my profile on here....

2006-08-24 06:03:52 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0 0

Stop focusing on yourself.
Stop feeling sorry for yourself.

Put your focus and effort on helping others. Go work at a homeless shelter. Volunteer at the hospital, etc.

First off, you will soon see there are people far worse off than yourself. And, when you interact with and help these people you will feel a new sense of self worth.

How could anyone hate a person who is helping others?

2006-08-24 07:31:21 · answer #2 · answered by mrpeabody 3 · 0 1

Depressed and you probably have issues that you need to deal with before you can move on. See a Doctor and explain whats going on they have medication that helps with depression. We live in a depressing world right now but focus on the good and trust me there are people who care you need to love yourself before others will. Also misery loves company so you may need to look at the people you associate with because they love to keep people down at there level if they are unhappy. I have been there and done that.

2006-08-24 05:53:38 · answer #3 · answered by twinsmakesfive 4 · 0 0

Paranoid Personality Disorder (PPD)

Paranoid personality disorder is marked by distrust and suspiciousness of others, such that their motives are always questioned and interpreted as ill will or malicious. In people with PPD, the excessive suspiciousness and hostility, often leads to arguments because of which they may be difficult to get along with. Due to their lack of trust in others, these individuals have a great need to be self sufficient, and to have a high degree of control over those around them. Following are some specific characteristics of PPD.

Suspiciousness - People with PPD believe that others will exploit, harm or deceive them. Often based on little or no evidence they speculate that others are plotting against them.

Doubts about loyalty of friends - They are preoccupied with doubts about the loyalty and trustworthiness of their friends and associates. They have difficulty in relationships as they often feel as if another person has deeply and irreversibly injured them. They believe that if they were in trouble, their friends will either attack or ignore them. If a friend displays a gesture of loyalty, the person with PPD is so amazed that they cannot trust or believe it.

Confiding - Individuals with this disorder are reluctant confiding in anyone, or in disclosing personal information. They believe that the information will be used against them.

Hidden meanings - They are constantly on the lookout for hostile intentions, because of which they often read hidden meaning into events, or remarks made by people. Compliments are often misinterpreted eg. a compliment by a boss on a project well done could be interpreted as the boss implying or pushing for better performance next time.

Grudges -Individuals with this disorder persistently bear grudges and are unwilling to forgive the insults and injuries that they think they have received, and so hostile feelings towards others persist for a very long time.

Counterattack - These individuals are also quick to counterattack with anger over suspicions of attack to their reputation or character.

Partner faithfulness - They may constantly suspect their spouse or partner of being unfaithful. They tend to want maintaining complete control of intimate relationships. To avoid being betrayed, they may constantly question and challenge the actions and intentions of their spouse eg If buying milk from the corner store normally takes 15 minutes but took the partner 20 minutes on a particular occasion, he/she may be obliged to account for the extra 5 minutes

2006-08-24 06:01:55 · answer #4 · answered by docmds2 1 · 0 0

Oh Hun someone needs u. there is always someone there who needs u . but there r those times when u feel all alone and we all have times like that. but u can go to a church or some place like an after school thing and help out and then u will see how u r needed. good luck Hun . email me if u want to talk!! sharonsbikes@yahoo.com

2006-08-24 05:52:57 · answer #5 · answered by booboo 1 · 0 0

No one part of Creation can be better or worst than any other part of Creation. Our ambition should be.... to try and be the best part of Creation WE can be, because when we do this we help Creation to be ITS best. You are unique....you are perfect at being you, noone can be you like you....be the best you can be, and do not be overly concerned about what others think. What others think of us, is none of our business.

2006-08-24 05:55:29 · answer #6 · answered by l00kstwice 3 · 0 0

You are disillusioned by believing the lie that this life is about you. You are created by God, who has a purpose for you and your life. We all fall short, but Christ died for us all while we were still sinners.

2006-08-24 05:53:57 · answer #7 · answered by Heather D 2 · 0 0

Stop caring about what others think and start caring about what you think.

2006-08-24 06:10:11 · answer #8 · answered by DonkeyKong 3 · 0 0

its just a feeling hun. Chill.

2006-08-24 05:50:19 · answer #9 · answered by Pearl 5 · 0 0

because you're in a depression, and have low self esteem

2006-08-24 05:50:05 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

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