Good Honest Advice!?

Question

Thanks for the answers, but I do all the things everyone was saying. Believe me I do BJ, I walk around the house with nothing on but T-shirts, because that's what he likes, and even with his football jersey on with nothing on underneath. What I want to know is what are some little things I can do, like should I just go behind him after practice and grab him or slap him on the butt or something. We got everything else going. I mean as far as him being aroused he is aroused just with me being in the room with him. So little things you know while my daughter is in the room. Because she always is. And I know it's not a sin, believe me I know that.(LOL) I just think I might just be afraid to let go again or something. Talk to me peeps!

Answer 1

I think your doing everything that needs to be done. You obviously love your husband very much. I only hope he realizes that fact.

Answer 2

hello mz pittman, and might i say that's an adorable icon you have. well, while it may seem that you can't seem to get that dog offa the porch, I think you're on the right track. keep on letting him know in subtle ways such as the little butt slap after practice ( good game, big boy) and a wink now and then, or find out some things he really treasures and become that treasure.it takes time sometimes, he may have committment issues. i've felt like (before) thatif i say or do the wrong thing then that wouold do it and they'd be scared off. but that's an awfully unforgiving manner to project onto someone. surely, you know the guy well enough, eh? just give him a nudge. get a li'l alone time with him, and just tell him. " hey, um, i've tried being subtle, and it's about to make me crazy.so, i'm taking a big risk here, letting you know that if you were a horse, i'd ride you every day". just surrender, girl. give him yer best, open, honest shot. at least you'll find out fer sure where he's at, and the mystery will be revealed. good luck, and good hunting.

Answer 3

Okay, I had to go find your original question to know what you were talking about (might want to mention that, b/c not everyone will have read the first one), BUT...

I have kids, so I completely understand where you're at. Wear sexy naughty underwear (like crotchles panties) under your clothing and whisper it into his ear.

Or email him at work and tell him you're wearing them. (IF and only IF you can away with this without getting him trouble. lol I coudln't do that with my hubby because email is public and subject ot checking without notice. lol).

Or email him at work and describe what you're going to do to him after the baby goes to bed. Then have something a little out of the ordinary planned. Like a shower and a message or tying him up if you guys are into that (hard to know what to suggest b/c I don't really know what you guys are into).

Or leave a sexy note in his lunch, for him to find when he's not with you.

Or wear a skirt one day without panties and whisper it into his ear. Or heck, be even more subtle and when the baby's not in the room, take his hand, put it up your skirt, and let him feel. Then pull his hand away before he has time to do much more and walk away.

I love to stand behind my husband while he's on the computer (which he's on it a LOT and I sometimes feel ignored b/c of it, which is why I do this)...and message his shoulders, then lean down and kiss his neck or when the boys aren't looking, nip his earlobe or sometimes just flick my tongue at it.

or when he's in his undies, shaving for his shower on the weekends, I'll come up behind him and lightly run my fingertips and nails up and down his back and the backs of his arms, giving him goosebumps. I have no idea why, but this ALWAYS makes him hot.

Shoot, I've come up behind him while he was cleaning up after dinner (at the sink, rinsing up the dishes), stuck my hands in his pockets and run them up and down his thighs (don't touch him *there*, just tease him). Or pat his bottom. Or whisper something saucy into his ear. My hubby and I love to throw sexual innuendos at each other that the boys are just too young to understand. Like an ol' reliable...he's fixing up his car and he picked up a screw and (you guessed it) asked me if I wanted a screw. I whispered back, "what, here?"

Or I was doing butt exercises the other night in front of him, which requires me to lay on the floor and lift my butt off of it. Which is completely harmless but doesn't take a lot of imagination.

Good luck! Have fun with it! And if you run out of ideas, search the internet. I've found tons of things over the years that way.

Answer 4

I'm not saying "jump him" in front of your daughter, but be affectionate and mildly physically intimate with your husband in front of her. This will help teach her appropriate ways to express her feelings with her future husband.

Dave Ramsey has this quote:
"my parents never talked about money or sex. I thought they didn't have either. It turns out they had both."

Show your daughter appropriate ways to express physical intimacy, don't try to hide it.

Answer 5

a touch, a kiss, a lil nibble on the earlobe, a wink, slight brush against his body with yours, be inventive,

Answer 6

well bbay ,, enjoy your life as well and don`t scared..

WHO.......?


WHO is THAT ...?
not sure , if that was me or not...
not sure ,if that one who is naked as a dewdrop..
and that one who stand there,...
and watching you with his heart,,

not sure , if that was me or not...
that face which is full of ,
nails ..
and storms ...
and rocks...
really i am not sure of that ..

but i am sure ,...
that,that one whom loved you ..
and never loved any one like you ..
and always dream of you ..
that was me..
and sure i am from that ..

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hazem

Answer 7

looking for the question

Answer 8

Um, the question was.....what exactly?

Answer 9

is there a question in there ?

Answer 10

What?