I told my friend that her boyfriend is cheating on her, but she doesn't think so, check this out, she says her boyfriend told her he had to take his son back to new york, because his son mom threaten to call the police on him, and he says he gonna have to stay up their a while to make sure his son is taken care of b/c the mother is unfit, okay all the time her boyfriend been up there he's been seeing about the boy more than the mom have, then he told her that his son's mother text him a message saying she wanted to get back with him, but he said he told her he didn't want her, my friend also told me that he goes places and leaves his cell phone at the house, he tells my friend that in new york you can get a 500 dollar ticket for driving talking on a cell phone, i told her what about the times when he is not driving, i know he doesn't drive around in new york all day. my friends says everytime she mention about breaking up with him he always cuts her off, and tells her to hush
2006-08-24 05:30:57 · 19 answers · asked by valentine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What is going on with all the run-on-sentences? I mean THIS - . - IS A PERIOD - USE IT!!!
2006-08-24 05:33:08 · answer #1 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's hiding something. He is either back with his sons mother or he's got some girls on the side in New York. I think your friend should just go ahead and break up with him because he's just stringing her along. She needs to find someone who will respect her and not cheat on her like he is. Another thing is that he probably has 2 cell phones! It's always a possibility. He just leaves the one that she calls at home takes the other with him. Your friend is getting played big time. That's just my opinion.
2006-08-24 05:36:07 · answer #2 · answered by I'll Be Your Sweet Escape 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That could go either way. It is her choice to believe him or not. Just sit back and watch what goes on. Take you out of it and leave it to her. He might not be cheating. But if you have ever been to NY you would know how it is up there. So I guess what I am getting at is that I understand she is your friend, but she has to make the choice....not you.
Good luck to your friend......I HOPE HE'S NOT CHEATING.
2006-08-24 05:44:25 · answer #3 · answered by jennifer_spanky2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean you have to look at it from both sides of the fence now i know that thats your homegirl but if shes not doing nothing about it then that might be what she wants its good that your being a friend and looking out for her but it might be some stuff that shes leaving out and not telling you all the details thats why shes so sprung!
2006-08-24 05:39:33 · answer #4 · answered by yhatek_godschild 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Humm...first of all, you, as the friend, are in a lose-lose situation giving her advice. She won't believe you. But I agree. He's cheating. He's just using her for back-up for when he gets back in town. She should let him go, but let her get to that conclusion on her own. If you say anything to her, she will defend him. He's not calling cause he's BUSY with another woman!
2006-08-24 05:34:58 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is one of those FEW situations where you just have to let her handle her own business. If she chooses to stay with him and waste her life away with him, just be there for her when it all falls apart. IF she leaves, be there for her while her heart heals. Just be a good friend, that is all you can do.
2006-08-24 05:33:39 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it looks like he is cheating on her, and if she is really your friend try to help her but remember that is her decision, she has to take the last word. i guess, there is only two options. or that men is only looking for a mom for his son and treat her after like a employment or he is cheating on her.
2006-08-24 05:39:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've seen this before, and she needs to break it off. Too many players in this game, and too much drama. If she doesn't believe him, it is not worth it. There are much easier relationships to find.
2006-08-24 05:41:47 · answer #8 · answered by Karen? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not cheating then I'll win the mega million today (and I don't even play)I'd tell your friend to move on
2006-08-24 05:35:00 · answer #9 · answered by spoiled 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to just get him to back off!!! If she wants to break up with him, she has a right to! If he can't respect that, he is SERIOUSLY messed up and needs a restraining order!
2006-08-24 05:35:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not mind your own businees, and let your "friend" live her own life? You think she needs you meddling in her business?
2006-08-24 05:35:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋