My friend and i were watching some porno clips on my computer and the only thing she would comment on were the women in the clips. The a few days later she just laughed for no reason and said what's so funny and she replied "I just thought of the clip on the internet with the girl and the strap on", she said "I gotta see that one again! I don't understand what a girl would get out of using a strap on" but now she tries to hint around to watching pornos sometimes. But when I joke around about strap ons, she tries to act like she's not into it and she tries to act like i'm the one who's interested and not her, but she's the one who brought it up before not me. Could she be bi-sexual?
2006-08-24 05:30:50 · 25 answers · asked by datgagirl87 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Okay thanks to all that replied...but the reason I asked is just so I could be aware..I'm not going to change or act differently about our friendship either way. I'm supportive of her no matter what lifestyle she chooses, I never said that it bothered me. I just wanted some advice. It just seems kind of weird because she claims to be straight, but to me these kind of actions just seems like she maybe bi-sexual.
2006-08-24 09:19:56 · update #1
So what if she is, why would this affect your friendship?
2006-08-24 05:31:57 · answer #1 · answered by welsh_witch_sally 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old is your friend? Some amount of sexual curiosity is normal in young people. For some reason (probably because the idea of two women together turns on lots of men), the idea of lesbianism has become much more accepted and common than it was, say, 20 years ago. I wouldn't make an issue of this. She is probably just playing with her identity. It if turns out this is a permanent thing, then it is what it is. You aren't going to change her.
2006-08-24 12:36:21 · answer #2 · answered by AngiesHusband 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be bi, she might just be interested or curious. If she is your friend, it shouldn't matter if she is bi or not. She is what she is and no one will be able to change her. If you truly want to be her friend, be supportive either way. A lot of women are curious at some point in their lives, doesn't make them anything but curious. Seeing two women together is hot, don't you think? She probably thinks the same thing ;)
2006-08-24 12:52:05 · answer #3 · answered by Mandms2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Curiosity of any form can be stimulating; doesn't mean that an orientation has been identified just because it happens with a video, with a specific tool, with a specific set of people...too many variables. It takes recurrent, direct involvement before any identification like that can be determined, labeled and deemed a lifestyle element.
2006-08-24 12:41:30 · answer #4 · answered by JLowers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you or your friend if either of you are bisexual. Sexuality is one of the best things about the human experience, and, much like ice cream, it comes in many different flavours. Don't be afraid to try something besides vanilla. Enjoy yourself. Life can be so sweet when you do.
2006-08-24 12:39:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could be but if she was what difference would it make? you'll have someone to watch the clips with now won't you! It's perfectly normal now for girls to say another woman is hot without being bi or lesbian. My friends do it all the time and i say it without questioning my sexuality b/c i'm comfortable with it.
2006-08-24 12:48:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very possible, but she could just be curious and fascinated about other ways to pleasure herself. If she is bi or a lesbian, she'll tell you on her own time. Don;t try to guess about things that may not be right
2006-08-24 14:26:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is, do you really care that much? obviously she is comfortable enough with you to share this stuff, she must trust you a lot. but based on the fact that you're acting so freaked out that she might be, maybe she doesn't deserve your friendship.
2006-08-24 12:36:24 · answer #8 · answered by Kayla-Ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just curious like a lot of women now days. If she were bisexual, would you think different of her? Aren't you curious too? Why don't you try each other out???
2006-08-24 12:33:22 · answer #9 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most likely she is. It is a shame how many people are deceived and plagued into doing terrible things. I suggest you stop watching pornography. you will become addicted and probably end up just like her. God Bless
2006-08-24 12:35:11 · answer #10 · answered by Amy A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, doesn't mean anything. Doesn't rule it out either. She might be a bit bi-curious, so might you. Don't get freaked out about it, it needn't change your friendship.
2006-08-24 13:03:22 · answer #11 · answered by tabasc_oh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋