blunt?......?

Question

no your honest opinion i respect its how you word it listen none was askin to pay the bills and believe me i dont float from job to job but in my opinion i think if someone doesnt goout anymore and just tries to get back on his feet then you know what i wouldnt give himn hell .....if he was always goin out then thats another thing ...like she said it is a partnership but as i see it now if you need to put in your match.com profile of how much your ideal partner has to mmake then.....i dunno thats kinda nervy

Answer 1

OK then.

I'm very argumentative and usually come across as being harsh even when I mean well.

I apologize if I hurt your feelings, but sometimes people need to "wake up and smell the coffee" in order to take the blindfold of their eyes.

Again, women are practical and the love has to be very deep for her to be able to compromise with a financial situation that is less than desirable. Financial reasons are statistically the mayor cause for divorce and relationship problems, so no surprise there.

I'm unsure on whether you are married or dating, but whatever It is, I wish you luck in your business. I hope that things improve in your business as well as in your personal life.

Friends now?

Best of luck

Answer 2

Hey, sorry, but it's a fact of life that one needs money (the more the better) to create and run a family. Yes, I did pass by the "nicest guys" simply because they were still living from paycheck to paycheck in their 30s. When I was very young, income didn't matter as much - everything seemed possible in the future. However, there came the time when that "bright future" was now; I'm making a comfortable living for myself, why would I ever accept anything less in another person, even in a "nice guy"? And yes, I want to make sure that my family and future kids are well-provided for; I simply don't want to be a stressed-out working mother trying to figure out how to make ends meet. Therefore yes, income is important if I am to plan a family with someone. There are plenty of "nice guys" out there, who take responsibility for lives and their finances, and most of them don't sleep with their secretaries.

Blunt may be blunt, but it's reality. That said - I understand that you're having a bad day (or a bad week); if you work to better your situation, you will come out ahead and meet a good woman who will appreciate you for who you are; but you have to respect and appreciate yourself first.

Answer 3

Yea believe it or not people to base on prospects on how much they make. they don't even consider the fact that person is very repsonsible and knows how to live with in his or her means and they enjoy there job so much that they would give up extra financial stability so that they can do what they want. Alot of people are in jobs that pay good but they hate their job. What kind of life is that. I don't base a person on how much they make but usually on what their hobbies and past time is. That will tell me if we would click. Because I wont be spending any time with them at work lol

Answer 4

Just because a person puts how much they make in their profile it doesn't mean it true. Do you think somone is going to put I make nothing or I make minimum wage. On the other hand if you spend a good part of your life getting educated to make a lot of money then you don't deserve a bum who didn't do anything and wants him to take care of you.

Answer 5

What the hell are you talking about? Was there a meeting I missed? As Jerry Seinfeld would say " Who Are These people?"

Answer 6

ppl don't want to get stuck with dead-beats & losers. besides, ppl lie on those things anyway.

Answer 7

hahahaha... People actually write how much money they want their ideal mate to make??? Thats ludacris!!!

Answer 8

WOW! WHAT?!?! That was one LONG run-on-sentence...that made no sense. Rewrite!

Answer 9

i really missed the last episode! i need tivo.

Answer 10

lol this guy looks like a homo