Can two guys love each other sexually (oral sex), emotionally, spiritually, and mentally; without having anal sex? Would the two be satisfied in their relationship? Any stories to share?
2006-08-24 05:28:22 · 12 answers · asked by Swordfish 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
G0y are diametrically opposed to anal sex that is the reason the a has been replaced with a zero no a no anal.
We are dudes that luv on other dudes. but we are not into fems or gender bending in anyway. We are about friendship first and foremost. To us the sexual play that we have with our buds is part of the male bonding process. It is different from the sex we have with our girlfriends or wives. And since there is not any risk of STD's with g0y sex (no penetration no STD) it is not cheating. OK I know I am going to get a whole slew of email from the ladies but you are women you would not understand. We are men we don't have everything in our lives touching everything else. We as men compartmentalize everything our relationship with Joe is separate from our relationship with you, just as our relationship with you is different from our relationship with our boss. Don't bother emailing me Ladies I will not try to convince you and you are not going to convince me call me chauvinistic if you want to but men and women are different.
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2006-08-24 06:10:49 · answer #1 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Sure, why not?
Seriously, I don't see why it can't be. A relationship is a relationship whether it is based on sex or not. It can have some of the things that both enjoy doing without the anal sex and everything that is importiant: sharing time with each other.
2006-08-24 05:34:40 · answer #2 · answered by grumpyfiend 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, my partner and I have been together for over 6 years now, and had anal sex maybe like 4 or 5 times.
2006-08-24 05:35:40 · answer #3 · answered by Harry_Cox 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it is possible and even common for two men to be totally in love. And many gay men find little or no pleasure in anal sex, and so don't participate in it. It would need to be something that a couple works out privately.
2006-08-24 06:45:10 · answer #4 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely, like a post above the same is true for myself and my partner. Anal is just not an issue, neither of us chooses to partake in it.
I think it is more a stereotype than a reality. It happens but not as often as straight people think.
2006-08-24 05:50:40 · answer #5 · answered by PARKERD 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I'm not a gay male.
But, from stories I have heard there are many men out there who ONLY participate in oral sex. And they have a great relationship with their partners.
2006-08-24 05:34:08 · answer #6 · answered by CartoonFreak1985 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Umm yes. I have no personal relationships to reflect on, but that is the relationship that I would prefer. I am not that keen on booty sex. It is fun from time to time, but I think I would rather save it for special occasions or something. Sounds like the perfect relationship to me!!
2006-08-24 05:43:57 · answer #7 · answered by Metacoma 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course, there are some gay people who don't practise anal sex at all!!
2006-08-24 05:49:25 · answer #8 · answered by Adam G 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My friends Steve and Shannon have been together in that exact type of relationship for years and it works out just fine for them. they love each other deeply
2006-08-24 05:35:39 · answer #9 · answered by Teri D 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes.... not all couples have anal sex
2006-08-24 06:02:10 · answer #10 · answered by stevepuff19 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋