Should i move in with my new girlfriend?

Question

we have been dating for 1 month now i have 2 kids and they are part time with me and there father. im ready for a new start.

Well we are both women and i love her very much. also there is the family thing with the religion and sorts on my side of the family accepting me as gay.

Answer 1

First and foremost you should talk to the kids if you haven't already. Ask them how they would feel about your g/f moving in with you. Then all of you sit and talk about it; you, her, and the kids. Think things through before you make a decision. Remember that your kids come first.

Answer 2

Girlfriend/Boyfriend - don't matter, it'd be disfunctional to place another person into your kids lives even if you had dated 1 year. 1 MONTH! Come on, you're kidding. This will change any kind of structure and routine and stability and house rules you might put into place before inviting someone else into family situations who may/may not belong there. What a mess you'll make! And you have no easy out if you regret the decision later -- your're stuck. and the kids! What will they feel like when you two have those inevitable arguments and problems that otherwise would not have happened or wouldn't have been her personal business. Stuck. Stuck. Don't do this. Wait. Years.

Answer 3

You're kids don't need another "father" in their lives until you have a long-term (certainly more than one month) relationship going on. So...no...don't move in with anyone right now. It will definitely confuse the kids and make you look like you're trying to replace their father.

Answer 4

If you feel that your kids will like her then go for it

Answer 5

if you are really ready, but you should wait a little bit longer.... you need to know her better.