Girls, what do you mean when you say to a man to show some character.?

Question

I just lost my ex-girlfriend over some stupid things I said and a friend says she might be playing me. She shows that she likes me when she is at collage and she isn't the most prettest girl for anyman too pick her up, but she still is a great looking girl. I ask her if she would like to talk and she said no. I wrote her a 4 page letter explaining my self and apologizing to her. She looks at me when im not looking and one day she dressed up pretty and came in and just sat there and staired at me across the room. I ignored her to give her a challange.

Anyway my buddy says she playing me. And maybe she wants me to show some charater. So to you woman what does it mean when you want a man to show character?
I also was wondering if I should flirt with other woman in front of her to get her jealous or maybe even kiss other woman and hug them to see if she has feelings for me.
thanks for you replys

Answer 1

Well first of all, ignoring her when she was obviously dressed up for you, and flirting with other women, and kissing and hugging other women, is NO WAY to show character. Not to mention, that kind of immature behavior will probably send her running for the hills away from you. Character means doing what you say, being open and honest, and treating other people with respect. If you really want to get back together with your ex-girlfriend, start showing her some genuine attention - and mean it.

Answer 2

Forget the revenge and jealousy scheme.. will never work (except in Hollywood movies), will make you feel horrible after two minutes and will make her angry. No point.

Your story sounds close to mine and my husband's when we first started dating. We weren't sure of what we wanted and we were testing each other personalities until extreme since we were expermineting with how far our feelings can take us.. this is a stage and if you really respect one another, and be kind to each other, you'll make it through. Be affectionate, understanding and try to give her her space when she needs it.

Answer 3

You, show your character and don't play into her stupid & childish games. Move on with your life and look for someone else. Don't bother flirting in front of her, she won't think it's for real, but to make her jealous.

Answer 4

I dont know... Ive told men to show more class because sometimes they act like idiots in public, but maybe character she means: show your personality, Show her that you want her, Show her that you desire her. See what happens. Good luck