Please give me some advice on how to handle this situation. My husband told me that I used to be a freak all the time(LOL!!)But every since we both got more spiritual that I kinda stopped doing some things. Don't get me wrong now, I do the thang in bed, he is satisfied with the sex but I guess I kinda let my guard down and I would like to know what is something that I could do suprisingly to entice him even further. Please keep in mind: He's in college, I work and I have a little girl. But I guess I just stop trying so hard after I had my little girl. But I don't want to lose the fire and things are great but they can be alot better and like fire. Advice or little things that would help. Thanks for the help.
2006-08-24 05:22:06 · 8 answers · asked by mzpittman01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ask him to share in the responsibility of rekindling your waning sex life. it takes two to tango and if you both are trying, your response to oneanother will set the sparks flying.
2006-08-24 05:38:40 · answer #1 · answered by babytalk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a problem. you are not the same person you were in the beginning of the relationship. that's not a bad thing but if you are changing and growing in different direction there may be nothing you can do. people change and grow, sometimes we grow apart from someone who we use to be on the same track with.you can't blame him for you are no longer who he fell for, do you have to change back into who you were? not likely. grow girl, see who you are becoming and if he likes this more mature woman great, if not i guess you will have to grow alone. you will be better off growing alone than stifling yourself to please him..difficult?reality?both yes but necessary.....
2006-08-24 12:31:20 · answer #2 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch a porno together and do everything they do in the porno. Its alot of fun, and its always a HUGE turn on for both people. Its def a freaky thang.
2006-08-24 12:26:13 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do the things you used to do. That's what he wants. God doesn't expect his followers to be prudes. Be a freak with your husband and you guys express your love all over the place!!
2006-08-24 12:40:38 · answer #4 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Role play... Get a babysitter for one night. You set up a surprise for him. Get a hotel room, set the mood (get everything ready for when he gets there). You just tell him you want him to meet you at this place and at this time. If he asks ???? just tell him to be patient that everything will be answered at the right time... trust me it worked for me.
2006-08-24 12:32:20 · answer #5 · answered by Sad&Lonely 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever taken your daughter to stay at a friends (or relatives) and waited for him to come home wearing nothing to greet him at the door? how about dancing for him? cook him dinner wearing just an apron.....I would think anything you do "for" him he would appreciate?
good luck
2006-08-24 12:28:08 · answer #6 · answered by heavensent41770 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wearing a towel around the house, or a short t-shirt around with nothing else on might help.
2006-08-24 12:24:34 · answer #7 · answered by red_firecracker77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babe- just stand there and smile and it would turn me on
2006-08-24 12:26:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋