Isn't this annoying, afriend asks you for help and has the nerve to cop an "attitude" if you don't do

Question

the favor fast enough ?

For example my friend who's husband doesn't let her out of the house didn't know her way to a town 15 minutes away from Providence. When it took me more that 15 minutes to get there,she started flipping out. How annoying is that ?

This is the reason I always try to help her despite her annoying outbursts. Even though her husband buys her expensive jewelry ,and just bought her a Mercedes Benz,Kompressor, what good is it if she can't leave the house when she feels like it ?

Answer 1

The fact that the husband is playing this controlling game with her has probably got her feeling frustrated and lost about most things she gets into. Best thing you can do is be understanding because the fact is that isn't a good situation to be in and you can't expect anyone in it to act happy and cheerful all of the time. We are creatures that don't need to base our lives on others expectations and if forced to we have a habit of lashing out sometimes not at the person that needs it. I'd really have to know more about you and her relationship but its only annoying if you don't understand why, right? So maybe ask her for an explanation would be a good first step.