2006-08-24 05:13:54 · 20 answers · asked by jihye 1 in Social Science ➔ Anthropology
I talk to him but did not working .. and when we do go out he always look another girl.. I don't know what's up ..please let me know what you thing what would you do?
2006-08-24 05:41:07 · update #1
Get away from him fast...and don't go back.
2006-08-24 05:17:15 · answer #1 · answered by ewema 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend is actually limiting your freedom you need to remove yourself from his presence permanently. Get out of the relationship, out of the house, and DON'T let him know where you go. He is being abusive and is probably dangerous. There are many, many web sites about emotional and psychological abuse, controlling men, etc. Get educated. Do not stay with him just because he provides financial security or emotional kudos. He will only destroy you. Please believe me. There are organizations that can help you. Look up women's shelters in your area.
2006-08-24 12:19:21 · answer #2 · answered by whiteparrot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to experience being in a loving relationship with someone tht respects you and treats youlike an equals, showers you with healthy attention and gives you the necessary space to grow as a person and the support you need to develop a healthy self-esteem, then run as fast as you can from this guy..
2006-08-24 22:23:26 · answer #3 · answered by TrueSoul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, maybe trying speaking in correctly and he might listen to you.
Correct form: I have boyfriend who will not let me go anywhere, what can I do to change our relationship?
Next, try putting your question in the correct category, do you even know what Anthropology means?
Finally, grow up a bit. If someone attempts to control you, get away. Slavery is illegal. If you an adult, you should know better. If you are not an adult, find one to help you.
2006-08-24 13:07:09 · answer #4 · answered by AmoLegere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be strong and just get away from where u are. Go to a family and tell him over the phone that you dont want to be with him. SOund like an abusive relationship. He is being too machocistic. He might tell u to kill urself one day if u stay there. Just get the Fu*k out!
2006-08-24 13:04:56 · answer #5 · answered by savio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesnt let you go anywhere that means he doesnt trust you, its up to you to decide whether you want to be in a relationship where there's no trust. If I were you, I would talk to him and he didnt change his attitude towards the situation, I would leave him.
2006-08-24 12:18:44 · answer #6 · answered by I♥NY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get into counseling to identify why you allow this destructive behavior to persist & a support group that is involved in solutions
rather than living in the problem.
2006-08-24 23:42:10 · answer #7 · answered by Sonny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you don't need your boyfiend's approval to go somewhere. why are you with a guy who sounds so possessive? i think the red flag went up days ago. you need to run away as fast as you can and don't look back. second of all- you say he looks at other girls. that's okay,but, if he makes you fell uncomfortable, than tell him about it. it's sounds like "trouble" to me. good-luck
2006-08-26 20:36:03 · answer #8 · answered by candy h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the power.....If this is acceptable to you, then do nothing. If not then find a new boyfriend, there are plenty of non-controlling people out there!
2006-08-24 12:28:36 · answer #9 · answered by who be boo? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can tell you what is up...he is a controlling man...get rid of him now...you will be sorry if you don't. this is not the man for you or any other woman. get away while you still can. and go where you want to go..
2006-08-24 20:26:17 · answer #10 · answered by intelligentbooklady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. If he already controls this, you won't be able to go to the bathroom in the future....He sounds really insecure.
2006-08-24 12:17:22 · answer #11 · answered by Karen H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋