The both of us were both friends with these two other girls, but then they started treating us like crap. So we decided to just drop the friendship. But my best friend just can't ignore them. She doesn't want to talk to them but she still does because she just can't seem to be rude or mean to those two girls! But she really hates them and can't stand them! I keep trying to help her but it doesn't work! And those girls go to the exact same high school so basically we can't avoid these girls! I really need help because I refuse to spend my Jr. year having to listen to those to dipsticks. And I want my friend to be able to ignore them! Please Help!
Oh yeah I want help and not criticism. So don't give some lame a** answer saying that she should get a life or something!
2006-08-24 05:10:11 · 7 answers · asked by ~Azorian Chick~ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I do talk them when they greet me but she has full out conversations with which they later use against her if she said something about someone. (not in a rude way but in a I don't like him that much way)
2006-08-24 05:16:01 · update #1
I mean theres really nothing you can do its all up to your friend to decide whether or not those are the kind of people she wants to be around. Just let her have her moments with them that doesn't mean that you have to join in on there little foolish games look at it as your maturing and you know what you want in and outta life so you just need to do you and life goes on ya know!
2006-08-24 05:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by yhatek_godschild 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know some people consider being honest ,rude.i feel this way if you don't like something about someone who is suppose to be your friend then just tell them .if you don't like those girls that is your opinion and not your friends, obviously.if she says that she agrees with you in private and acts differently in public than she has her own issues, doesn't mean you have to be apart of any relationship that makes you uncomfortable. you had better learn now to speak up.the only people who will be offended are the ones you intend to give your message.
2006-08-24 12:22:59 · answer #2 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Shes probably a people pleaser to the Nth degree... I would either make new friends and hope that she follows, or tell her to choose, YOU ( a great friend ) Or them (the biatches). If she decides them, then you know she isnt such a great friend after all. Good luck.
2006-08-24 12:13:22 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boring
2006-08-24 12:28:15 · answer #4 · answered by Delilah T 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In a way she is being more mature then you are because by not talking to them period shows imaturity. You don't have to go out of your way to not talk to them but in passing if they address you just address them back. Don't stoop to their childish level. It wont bother you near as much
2006-08-24 12:14:10 · answer #5 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Life...get one....
2006-08-24 12:12:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok
2006-08-24 12:15:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋