Honest and serious answers appreciated. Ok, let's say you've had a kid or two, your husband's "size" is average and not necessarily an issue, but what if he bought a rather large (but not enormous) strap-on that would fit over him and wanted to try this on you. Do you think you would enjoy this "full" feeling that you might not otherwise experience?
2006-08-24 05:06:15 · 19 answers · asked by DMP77 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ALso, would it concern you that after doing this a number of times, going back to just "him" would be a disappointment?
2006-08-24 05:08:42 · update #1
could be fun if its done with love, tenderness and a serious amount of humour
2006-08-24 05:07:50 · answer #1 · answered by welsh_witch_sally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always the question to debate-does size matter? Most say yes. The better question might be - Openness to new experiences that both are comfortable with. The HARDEST thing in a relationship - is openness and honesty. -- SO ASK the lady in question -- but ask in the right time and way! Good Luck!
2006-08-24 12:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by Freya T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kegal exercises will get ANY women, one, two three or more babies, back to where they need to be, tightness-wise....the vagina is a MUSCLE, it is able to be toned (I hate that word, becuase it sounds so weak and lame) and tightened, made stonger, just like ANY other muscle......
So, that being said, what you said was stupid. You implied that a woman that had kids is basically used damaged goods when there are plenty of out of shape females that NEVER had children walking around with flabby bodies and unattended to vaginal walls......................
Kegals ladies....your man will love you for it! You wont have to deal with strap ons to get the fullness feeling...........
2006-08-24 12:17:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are having a problem with his performance then try it. You know if you feel better with the extra help, you will not want to go back to the other size, then how will he feel. It seems that he is really trying to please you.
2006-08-24 12:16:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it would cause problems, bc/ if she likes that size, then what are you going to do? She probably doesn't want to risk hurting your feelings by saying she wants larger, especially if she likes your size. Why would you want to use that on her anyways? You wouldn't get much enjoyment either.
2006-08-24 12:09:57 · answer #5 · answered by Becky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing wrong with getting the "full" feeling you've just described as long as you both are comfortable doing it.
2006-08-24 12:18:35 · answer #6 · answered by flutterby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, why not, if it's my husband. He'd find out that it's didn't mean that much after a while. He's just playing out a fantasy; I'd go along.
2006-08-24 12:08:13 · answer #7 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd rather have the real thing. If you were gentle about it, it might be fun to try. Don't force her or you will turn her off you.
2006-08-24 19:17:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds fun!
2006-08-24 12:08:58 · answer #9 · answered by Asia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try it. If he it bothered him then he wouldn't of bought it. It might be a way that you both would get a smile on your face.
2006-08-24 12:13:16 · answer #10 · answered by sscott12414 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋