Why do you think that famillies fight and fall apart when a loved one dies.And how could I help bring us together again.
2006-08-24 04:51:08 · 7 answers · asked by sandy v 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Most of the time it is over one thing and that is:
The Almighty Buck.
What's in it for me? Where is my share?
Especially if you lose a mom or a dad and you have siblings. Believe me, the claws come out. Some siblings begin fighting before the parents check out. All I can tell you, honey, is good luck trying to bring everyone together again. When someone real close to you checks out, it is difficult on every person who is a part of the family.
2006-08-24 05:01:23 · answer #1 · answered by MARK 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Each person deals with the grief of loss of a loved one in their own way -- and it will take time to deal with that loss. Sometimes people don't ever deal well with the loss. You just need to be there for your family when the hurt is not so bad and they can finally talk about their feelings without being in the immediate strong grief.
2006-08-24 11:57:00 · answer #2 · answered by sglmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the wake of a death people deal in different ways and it takes a toll on all the family as time goes by things get easier as for getting everyone back together it is time and understanding that will bring you back together God always finds a way to fix it. good luck
2006-08-24 12:47:30 · answer #3 · answered by doodiemoonwalker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time it's because people get greedy...Everyone is wanting what the deceased left behind...Just share it and get over it or donate it to a worthy charity
There should be no fighting at this time...this is a time for becoming stronger as a family unit
2006-08-24 11:55:26 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is because different people handle stress differently. Some have the need to be alone and grieve and some have to have others around them and grieve. It just has to do with the way people handle it. Death can be stressful and rip apart life's and families depending on how that family handles their grief.
2006-08-24 11:57:15 · answer #5 · answered by ny3boys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The stress of a loved one puts stress on everyone. I would try to have a family meal... that way everyone is in the same room. Give plenty of notice and do not take no for an answer.
2006-08-24 11:55:04 · answer #6 · answered by Tricia P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anger is part of the grief process... give it time, things will smooth out.
2006-08-24 11:56:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋