2006-08-24 04:46:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No.I learned that at a very high price and now am secure within myself.Find a support group in your age bracket.I'm 71.
2006-08-24 04:49:33 · answer #1 · answered by eugene65ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you can, just like you can stop being alive. If you're gay, be gay, don't live a life of lies and denial. When you die you will look back at your life and either die with satisfaction knowing you lived a truthful and fulfilling life, or you will die with regret at having lived a lie.
2006-08-25 04:34:03 · answer #2 · answered by practical thinking 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can stop practicing a gay lifestyle, but you will probably always be somewhat attracted to other men. If you are diligent about not giving in to your gay temptations, they will diminish over time. Confide in someone you trust and ask them to hold you accountable. They can help keep you from giving in to your lust.
2006-08-24 11:58:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you WANT to, you probably can. I've heard that certain kinds of counseling or therapy can change sexual orientation, or something...
Being gay should not bother you. It does not make you less of a person. If you are not practicing, there is no reason even the most fundamentalist person can find fault with your orientation. And even if you are practicing, it is nobody's business but your own and your partner/s, and God if you believe in God.
2006-08-24 11:51:28 · answer #4 · answered by tarkenberg199 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. Don't believe those quacks and weirdo religious fundamentalists who tell you otherwise.
God made you the way he did because that is the way he wants you to be. You have been dealt a hand in life. You can't ask for new cards. Learn to play with the cards that you have.
It gets better. Don't be afraid.
2006-08-24 12:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by Think.for.your.self 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I highly suggest you just be yourself...
My grandfather claims he knew he was gay his entire life. He tried not to be, and married my grandma and they had my aunt and my mom. Well, he ended up leaving my grammie for a man when my mom was ten...
You are much better off being who you are. Otherwise lots of people could get hurt.
2006-08-24 11:49:49 · answer #6 · answered by im_shady77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry dude...you're on your own. But if it helps I think you are past a point of no return. I don't think that you can say that you've been with the same sex and then not be gay later.
2006-08-24 11:48:48 · answer #7 · answered by triplesixkoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can avoid a gay lifestyle if you know what i mean but that would just be lying to yourself.Deep down inside you will always be gay..so u might try learning to accept yourself for who you are..
2006-08-24 17:05:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know yes u can i did i was bi but man does it take a lot of effort and self control but i like the felling when i can control myself from doing somethign i like and hey turn to jesus might sound boring but its not at all it seriously worked for me i have so much faith in him now that i can ask anythign and i get it soon really thats true try it
2006-08-26 00:26:40 · answer #9 · answered by Unique 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way to stop it, just learn to accept it. There's nothing wrong with it, so just adapt to it to make the most of yourself
2006-08-24 13:24:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋