close friend, but simply words are not enough to express your sorrow
2006-08-24 04:30:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Other - General Health Care
If she is a close friend you probably already said how sorry your are for her. Now, I would just call her and ask her how she is today.
Try to call as often as you did before.
2006-08-24 04:36:30 · answer #1 · answered by Just ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give your condolences, and be supportive, through her difficult time. Be yourself and be aware of help she may need in her attempts to tasks or jobs that could use a helping hand. Observing these areas is an act of kindness, she will recognize. Prepare small luncheons with friends to make sure she is keeping up a healthy diet intake, on her road to recovery.
2006-08-24 11:48:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband was killed in a car accident 2 years ago, and a lot of people avoided me because they didn't know what to say. A simple "I'm sorry", or even a hug meant a lot. You don't have to say a lot, or anything at all-just being there is the most important thing.
2006-08-24 11:32:33 · answer #3 · answered by But Inside I'm Screaming 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a 'witness to there suffering'. Just being there is more important than having the right words. Bake them something. Don't forget them, practice random acts of kindness. Offer to do something for them (mow the yard, take care of the dishes, feed the kids, etc.)
2006-08-24 13:40:23 · answer #4 · answered by Charles B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no right way to say anything really. The most important thing is that you try. In situations like this, alot of people avoid those who have lost someone, for fear of saying the wrong thing.
Just say something simple, "I'm sorry for your loss, this must be such a hard time for you, if you need anything...".
2006-08-24 11:33:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the card store, pick out a card. The people who write cards can often say the things that you want to say but can't find the words to. Give this card to your friend. They will understand what you are trying to say and that you are there for them if/when they need you.
2006-08-24 11:44:58 · answer #6 · answered by L. S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure a hug and just being understanding would mean a gr8 deal. Maybe you could talk about the good times, and offer a gift thats a reminder of the person. Im sure that would mean the world to them.
2006-08-24 11:38:12 · answer #7 · answered by nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a true friend you will just be around to talk, or help the person with her / his sorrow, and just be there for your friend.
2006-08-24 11:39:20 · answer #8 · answered by pa69oldfart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Robert Heinlein: There's only one real way to comfort a widow, but you'd better be willing to accept the consequences.
2006-08-24 11:33:39 · answer #9 · answered by greebster 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like you said, words can't take away their pain. Let the person know that you are there for them and if they need anything, to please ask you and you'll be happy to help.
Also, give them a call or stop by to check on them occasionally. Bring dinner over or something thoughtful like that.
The only healer is time.
2006-08-24 11:34:18 · answer #10 · answered by roomwithaview 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋