Why do teenagers (not all) have sex knowing the risk they are taking and then after they have sex they all cry what if Im pregnant? how will I tell my parents? WTF has anyone ever heard of protection or better yet instead of freaking yourself out why even have sex? If your gonna have sex shouldnt you take the proper precautions?
2006-08-24 04:18:37 · 16 answers · asked by fred g 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
condoms dont always work!!!!!!!!!! i found that out the hard way!
2006-08-24 04:21:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Geez, I wonder that every day when I look at my pregnant 16 year old kid. Even after all the talking and telling and lecturing and everything else, they still do whatever the heck they want, and the rest of us pay the consequences. Lord knows, I'll be taking care of a newborn in a few months that I didnt make nor intend to make. I have two 2 year olds of my own, why would I want another one. But, here he comes, and mom will help, just to keep the child from having to go to some stupid daycare and being mistreated by some idiot who see's dollar signs when the see a kid. Yes, they should take the proper precautions, but they don't even when it is all out there right in front of them where they can get it without even telling their parents. I dont know, maybe they just dont have any brain cells anymore.
2006-08-24 11:24:45 · answer #2 · answered by momofmany79079 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's called hormones, peer pressure and influences by the media.
I have to say one thing now: Didn't you ever do anything stupid as a teenager? It's part of growing up. People make mistakes. So to answer your question about crying b/c they are pregnant...well in the heat of passion, not everyone uses good judgement that includes adults.
I mean if people would actually stop being so PC and start raising their kids instead of letting the TV do that for them, this problem would probably be minimized.
Should I take the proper precautions? No. I'm 25, married, and have been for the last 5 years.
Should other people? Well, it would be the smart thing to do, but hey, I can't run their lives, so as long as they aren't dicking with me or my family, I don't really care what they do. I can't save/help you all, you'll have to save/help yourself.
2006-08-24 11:20:27 · answer #3 · answered by Corn_Flake 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
They don't think about the consequences of it. Peer pressure and media add to their desire of doing it. They also think nothing bad will happen to them. Another thing they think is they are "in love" or they will say "we will get married in the future" which is not true most of the time. Their parents might not be doing a good job trying to prevent it. Also, taking precautions won't help with STD's even though people encourage them to use them. The viruses can go through those microscopic holes in condoms.
It's sad to hear about all these teens doing it. It's even more sad hearing them worry about being pregnant more than getting STD's, which they have a higher chance of getting. If they have a child, it won't kill them. They can put the child up for adoption if they don't want to keep him/her. There are families that want one but can't have them. Meanwhile, STD's can kill people and there are no cures for some of them.
Main point is, they don't think. They think they can do whatever they want, and nothing will happen to them.
2006-08-24 12:59:54 · answer #4 · answered by Kenneth S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didnt have sex until I was married. I think if more girls stuck to that they'd be better off.
Ive never known a girl who had sex before marriage who didnt regret it after finding her husband. Theres just something lost when you dont have that part of you to give exclusively to him.
I waited 20 years. I dont know why thats so hard for so many girls.
2006-08-24 11:21:34 · answer #5 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, they'll just fool around and not wear condoms (sarcastic)...they dont think! they feel that having sex is good to relieve problems but actually it makes more problems...what if the girl gets pregnant? the guy will leave and she'll have to take care of the baby herself if her parents push her away...
using condoms is just a waste of MONEY! spending money on stupid things is a waste of valuable time...
do whatever you want but if any problems happen, who will you blame? your parents? God? or will you blame the guys carelessness for not putting on the condom 'correctly'?
2006-08-24 12:00:02 · answer #6 · answered by Princess Answers 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that would probably be because their hormones are raging and theyre horny as hell, still have a brain but are thinking more with their horny side, then the intercourse takes place and those hormones are released, therefore bringing on that oh my god what if im pregnant thing
2006-08-24 11:23:11 · answer #7 · answered by itschris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same reason you did 50 years ago you old geazer!
2006-08-27 09:23:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i did take precautions when i had sex
2006-08-24 11:20:08 · answer #9 · answered by UK GUY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becuz why has 2 branches and a long tail. ha ha!
2006-08-24 14:14:33 · answer #10 · answered by tennys 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some don't understand the consequence of what they are doing until it's too late.
2006-08-24 12:07:57 · answer #11 · answered by ♥mommy of 4♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋