i have a bf and his friend likes me and i like him 2 and i really don't know what to do and i have been with my man for 2 years I NEED HELP
2006-08-24 04:16:28 · 23 answers · asked by julie_hottie403 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
Stay away from your boyfriends friend unless you are looking for trouble.
2006-08-24 04:18:22 · answer #1 · answered by mixemup 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you are just tired of your bf...The problem is that you have 2 years invested in this, and should you throw it all away? If you are under 20 then you just need to get rid of your current bf and either be on your own or try dating this other guy. Either way, your heart isn't with your current bf, so do the right thing and let him go, for all you know he might like another girl and this could work out for the both of you.
On another note, don't expect your current bf to ever trust or befriend this friend of his in the future. Do you really want to be the girl that gets between two guy friends? I can tell you from experience that in the long run the girl usually loses out to a true friendship. Just be careful with matters of the heart, what goes around always always comes back. The earth is round, we figured that out a long time ago!
2006-08-24 04:20:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... first of all u need to ask yourself whether u still like ur bf or not. If your heart's saying no, no point continuing the relationship as u might hurt him even more if u drag the relationship yet your heart is with someone else. If u like both at the same time, u r most probably not full heartedly committed to both. both u and your bf need a cooling period so that u can sort out your own feelings.
follow your heart, girl! and gd luck! :)
2006-08-24 05:16:22 · answer #3 · answered by jing jing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't mess around...if you want trouble, break up with your bf and get with his best friend. But in my perspective, that would be an awful thing to put your man through.=/
~ Elle
2006-08-24 04:22:48 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Elle ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've been with your boyfriend for two years and you his friend you have to start evalutating you relationship with your boyfriend. How many fights have you had, could you see yourself with him in the future, does he make you happy things like that. Then evauluate his friend, what kind of relationships has he had in the past two years, is he worth it things like that.. I really hope this helps! GOOD LUCK
2006-08-24 04:21:12 · answer #5 · answered by moviebuff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find ur inner self and find what you really want just have some you time and just relax and think its good for you you'll soon figure out how u feel and who to go for just dont cheat on ur man just you'll figure out who you want just make sure it is ur final and right decision because if u go for the other guy that guy might not want u back and the other guy may have been better for you but just think it over before u make any decisions
2006-08-24 07:44:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have been together for 2 years then it is probably not worth it because if you get together with his friend then you will hurt him and you most likely wont have a friendship with him after and they his friend and you will probably break up in a short amount of time but its all up to you
2006-08-24 04:19:54 · answer #7 · answered by noodledalton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be with your man only bcoz if you are with him for 2 years .you might have understood him well.Becoz 2 year is not a small time. See,you are understanding , faithing,and enjoying the nice time with him for 2 year .So you should be with him.In this materialistic world every body tries attract someone his /her benifits.But he hasnot done anything that hurted you for 2 year.Be with him, enjoy forthcoming times,and faith on him.I'm sure you will get fruitful result.donot divert . My wishes are with you.
DEVRAJ.................
2006-08-24 04:37:56 · answer #8 · answered by SUMEET D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not happy with your bf now, than tell him its over, and go for his friend. But dont expect you're ex to want to have any friendship with you at all.
2006-08-24 04:20:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't like your boyfriend any more then i would break up with him.... but to go out with his friend when there are so many other guys out there.... that's just wrong... don't forget that you are obviously very young and there are other people you can be with.... why make it sting you boyfriend just a little more just cause you think you like him.... you probably like him cause you know hes off limits....
2006-08-24 04:20:15 · answer #10 · answered by Lipstick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋