........yeah yeah love crap and all that jazz.......
Give me a break............
2006-08-24 04:13:35 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
I saw about 50 new questions from you(lol) and I was going to answer them in order but than this one caught my eye.........
Ok, I'll give you a break, i won't write my usual long novels to your questions. ha ha---but the answer for this guy is NO. It is sad that there are many(most?) guys out there who are only about sex. Even the nice guys out there have it in the back of their minds. I wonder: if a really nice, decent guy is attracted to a girl and they hit it off and it looks like they may have a future together, but she says there will never be any sex involved, how many guys would stay? Sex is a part of it but is it necessary?
don't get me wrong, of course sex with someone you really connect with is mind-blowing. It adds to the flavor of it: it's sharing body and soul. It's a beautiful thang....but to me it's the connection with someone I care about most.
The girl I was seeing last (b4 it ended recently---weep weep)actually had to tease n flirt with ME for over 9 months before anything happened. I wanted the connection to be there. I didn't want it to just be about sex. Personally, I wouldn't even care if I ever had it again.
To look into the eyes of someone you care about and be engulfed in that feeling of warmth and love....
to talk all night about anything and throw serious and even wacky philosophies and ideas about life around....
to laugh n have fun and be goofy........
to share good times n bad times and always being growing in Love n Trust.........
to just have someone THERE.......the connection......it's dazzling to the heart senses.........(got some of my own mumbo jumbo jargon for ya---of the sappy variety)
These things & many more is what is important to me.......
Most guys are just about getting in a girls pants....true, LoLa....but not all guys---there are a few decent ones left......:)))
and sorry about that break I promised you: you still got a novel from me anyway!! Ha ha---I owe you a short answer to one of your other 49 questions.............lol
2006-08-24 10:05:43 · answer #1 · answered by .. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, we men are biological products no different than females in that respect. Men are promiscuous by nature as we are programmed to be stimuated by that which varies from what we have been exposed to frequently. However let us examine women as well. Here a couple gets married after falling in love and being on cloud nine because of the dopamine and serotonin that makes them feel that they have been born again; now there is the baby and the woman's love and priority now shifts toward the child; oh look, there she is now demanding that the provider find a means of obtaining more money for the family; watch her buy things so that she can have the perfect nest. How insatiably she works on her nest day and night and as the man feels used by the female watch him began his adulterous affairs. This is the human condition
2006-08-24 04:27:37 · answer #2 · answered by Steven S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good God no!
What a fella REALLY wants from a woman is his fair share of the quilt after the sex is over, understanding that when he looks at porn it isn't about her, it's about him, and that sometimes it's enough if two people can like each other enough not to fight cos love is just a fleeting illusion.
What this fella really wants from a mate is just plain and simple, undemanding, uncomplicated companionship. I'd sacrifice sex for that any day of the week.
2006-08-24 05:53:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think of females are any diverse with regard to the will for intercourse? God placed the force for intercourse in adult males greater so than females because of the fact it is going to be the male to start that element of a courting. Nature isn't all intercourse. Its a organic intuition for nature to handle a desire that God placed there for us to reproduce toddlers. Then and in basic terms then ought to intercourse be on the surprising checklist. i'm no longer saying that 2 shouldn't savour intercourse in love making and in a family situation, yet love is plenty greater solid whilst intercourse is put in its suited place.
2016-12-14 10:57:46 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is natural between a male and a female but what is more important to me in a woman is the emotional side of her. I really need a warm lap to lie my head on and complain about my boss when I get home :)
Seriously, it is not only sex. It is about emotions, care and nurture between the two sides.
2006-08-24 05:45:52 · answer #5 · answered by zxcpoi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the woman.
If the woman is shallow but sexy, yeah all we want is sex.
But if she's cool, we want a companion... and also sex.
Seriously though, I am married and I love my wife for who she is regardless of whether I am getting sex or not. I like her ideas, her kindness, quirkiness, her talents, her cooking, and her tight yoga butt.
I have loads of girlfriends who are just friends and I have no desire to be sexual with any of them... or at least most of them.
2006-08-24 04:31:48 · answer #6 · answered by no need for a name 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, if sex is the only thing men really want, why not just spend money on prostitutes, instead of having a family and kids -- which is WAY more expensive?
2006-08-24 06:27:11 · answer #7 · answered by hq3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yeah! Sex is a must. but there are other things.
A nurse when I feel down or sick.
A maid to maintain the household.
A therapist to help me deal with life.
A friend to go party with and to tell my secrets to.
A wild kinky woman in the bedroom.
2006-08-24 04:19:23 · answer #8 · answered by Just Another Guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man wants FULLFILLMENT from a woman, and whatever sex he can get too!
But don't underate the value of a good woman - they have much more to offer other than sex (we'll take that too, thank you).
2006-08-24 06:05:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not really. Sex is just a bi-product of a true relationship. What we really looking for is someone that we can trust and be close with.
2006-08-24 04:17:34 · answer #10 · answered by sakh1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋