Many incoming and outgoing calls on her phone. What do I do to exactly find out the truth? And if it true what do I do ?
2006-08-24 04:13:10 · 20 answers · asked by Baba 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
not a good sign. tell her how you feel. if she is dedicated to you she will understand if not she'll more than likely get mad. And that will be your answer.
2006-08-24 04:16:10 · answer #1 · answered by e_deckwa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is the no.1 issue in a relationship if u don't have trust u don't have anything. U don't want 2 go through life with her wondering if she's cheating or not, and I know she doesn't want 2 b accused of wrong doing if she's not doing anything. Be upfront with her ask her don't spy because if she's not doing anything wrong, u'll look like the bad guy 4 not trusting her and it wouldn't be good 4 neither one of u having serious trust issues. If she cheated before and u took her back, u choose 2 forgive n forget even though it looks like u never forgotten about it. Stop living in the past we all make mistakes it's what u do in the present that predicts the future. If ur uncomfortable with her friendship with her ex tell her n the best thing I suggest is marital counseling, have a professional sort out ur conflicts then take it from there.
*Good Luck*
2006-08-24 11:29:42 · answer #2 · answered by mzdeelishuz23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not that I have experience in this situation but I'll tell you what I think. She's probably calling him a lot because they both want to grab onto something in their past that was probably AMAZING back then. You probably don't watch Gilmore Girls so I won't trouble you with any parralelisms from there. But the point is that they will realize soon enough that it's gone... any sparks, any dreams, any experiences... all they've got are memories. Hopefully they won't figure that out right after they sleep together. But eventually they will realize that they're over. REALLY over. It was great, but it's gone. And they're different people- when you're in high school you're just a kid!! Now they're grown up with different ambitions and different character traits and she's married!!!
2006-08-24 11:17:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is reliving her high school days and how desirable she was to another man. My own opinion: Just a matter of time before she gives it up to the guy again. Don't worry about the truth. Now, go dust off your balls and tell your WIFE that it's going to stop right now. Pick up the phone and call the ex sweetheart and tell him not to contact your wife again or you'll kick his *** or worse. Your wife is testing you, honey. She wants you to be a man and stand up for her, even against herself! BE A MAN!!
2006-08-24 11:43:13 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What she has already had an affair? I'm not sure of how to get advice for this, I mean, aside from spying on her, what can you do, confront her with the truth, because she would then just go. I mean you have to trust her and if something is going on then you must trust that she will end it and come forward to you about it! This is just my opinion, I don't know!
2006-08-24 11:18:16 · answer #5 · answered by Emma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
i feel quite sad to see your question. However if i will be in your position, i will start to show my wife that i love her and care for her. Go and start make her some drinks or get her something that she like, and speak with her with gentle and love. Say something that is nice to hear in her heart. Let her feel the love you have for her. Then out of your love, look into her eyes and let her know of your concern about her.
No matter what will be the answer from her, remember you have chose to love her to the end of your age. If I am you, i will start to court my wife again as what i did in the pass. Refresh your love to her and i believe you will win her heart again just as she was so touched that she has chose to marry you out of so many people out there.
To get marry is not so difficult. But to maintain the marriage is by the chose of the husband and wife. The feeling of love has its high period and its low period. We can always choose to refresh the love when it has gone low.
Remember what ever you choose to do, do it out of your love.
God bless you
2006-08-24 12:03:48 · answer #6 · answered by Hetto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, what do you mean by "again"? Has she had affairs before? Had she had them before with this guy?
Second, do you want to spend your life feeling this way, unable to trust your cheating spouse? You have a few questions to ask yourself. Cheaters are repeat offenders. Face that fact. Is this something you want the rest of your life?
Hire a private investigator. Verify with this third party that she is cheating, then get a divorce.
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2006-08-24 11:26:14 · answer #7 · answered by robabard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would question her and let her know what you are thinking. Also let her know that it not ok with you.... If there was once feelings there and they are now talking a lot more, that could lead to trouble even if it isn't right now. I would keep an eye out for something going on....
2006-08-24 11:20:42 · answer #8 · answered by Couple of Cents 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Again? She's already had one affair? With this HS sweetheart or someone else? Yikes!
You're either a glutton for punishment or a sucker!
2006-08-24 11:15:18 · answer #9 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes very intersted in him,why would she talk to him so much and be selfish and ignore your feelings,if i was you id just let her go beause shes going to cheat,if she wasnt she wouldnt talk to him and hurt your feelings,would you do that to her?if not then you shouldnt have it done to you.and if he didnt have intensions on being with her why would he waste his time calling all the time,theres a 90% chance shes already been with him.
2006-08-24 11:16:56 · answer #10 · answered by milf man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋