Here's the story my best friend lisa of 6 years decided to just tell me i am not invited to her sister's wedding.The reason because it would cost too much for me to attend.I didn't realize 20 a head was so much i was kept out.Her family and i have always been close so it really hurts me to not be invited.And why did lisa wait til 2 weeks away to tell me.I know she knew long before that.My question is ,why did she wait?I think her sister was a little envyous of me from day one.i just don't get how they can be super nice to me to my face and when i not their ,they talk badly of me.Should i tell this friend to go to hell.This is not the first crappy thing she did to me.
2006-08-24 03:39:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'd be mad too. It sounds like Lisa waited so long on purpose, perhaps because she was hoping it was not enough notice for you to get to go. I am hoping you didn't or don't attend this wedding. Don't grace them with your presence or presents. Plus I would never attend a wedding without a formal invitation from the bride and groom. You should confront Lisa. Ask her why you weren't invited in the first place and why she waited so long to informally invite you. Put her on the spot and watch her sweat. Maybe it is time to tell her to go to hell. Good luck.
2006-08-24 03:44:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well, I understand having to trim a guest list if the cost is $20 a head. That is a lot !!!! But, your "friend" could have been more forthcoming. She was probably concerned about how it would affect your friendship.
I don't understand why you are so concerned, though. You say that they talk badly of you and this is not the first crappy thing this "friend" has done. I suggest you get a new friend. Don't be available when Lisa wants to do something. If she asks you why, don't bring up the wedding. Bring up the past treatment.
2006-08-24 03:43:15 · answer #2 · answered by jboatright57 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say to her it's alright that you are not invited. You can do better things than going to her sister's wedding right?? Have fun with the other friends you got. Seems like she's not really you're best friend if she talks bout you and what she did to you. Tell her bout the plans of going out your friends to the theme park or something (which obviously cost less than that wedding) you have on her sister's wedding day. She will be feeling totally left out! That's how you felt when you knew that you werent invited right?
2006-08-24 04:02:58 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Butt3rfLyKis5ez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You instructed your sister, and that i'm assuming whilst your suitable pal instructed you which you suggested you would be there. so which you may circulate on your suitable friends and your sister (and your mom) will basically might desire to deal. Your sister could hav emade particular that the main severe human beings could make it until now picking a date. She knew you had a prior engagement so because it somewhat is her fault. some each and every physique is amazingly selfish whilst it comprises weddings questioning the international revolves around them and that persons could basically make it take place. i might say regardless of who you're nearer to you may circulate to the single that set a date first. the reality that she's the single you will additionally somewhat circulate to makes it that somewhat extra of the suitable determination. tell your sister now which you probably did tell her and that she chosen that date besides so which you will no longer make it. you are going to be able to desire to in keeping with risk attempt to circulate to issues along with her (like dress fittings) and the rehersal dinner in keeping with risk yet whilst she's bitchy approximately it i does not even do those.
2016-09-29 22:35:45 · answer #4 · answered by greenwell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not as good of a friend as yo are. plus most ppl suck
2006-08-24 03:43:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋