My wife is obese (almost 150 lbs!!!) How can I get her fatasss into shape?

Answer 1

Start an excersize program together.

Answer 2

A couple things to note first- weight is not all that matters- muscle weighs 3x more than fat.. a size 0 person at 5"4 can weigh 120 pounds, they can also weigh 103. And for a really tall gal, possibly thick boned, 150 may not be obease. Also- Morbid Obesity is an actual disease that needs to be diagnosed by a doctor.
Now, presuming she is fat... how you can get her into shape? Talk to her in regards to your concern TO HER HEALTH (not the way she looks, that will only make her defensive and shut down). If you don't want to talk to her about it, than you can make changes FOR her. When you two go grocery shopping, steer her away from the bad foods. Try going on a diet together. After dinner, instead of curling up on the couch to watch TV and eat dessert, ask her to go on a walk with you. Dress it up by telling her that you want to look at the stars or feel the night breeze. On the weekends, don't let her sit around the house all day, get her *** out to a hike or jogging in the morning- but YOU HAVE TO DO IT WITH HER, this is key in every factor of a relationship- you can't change someone, you can only change yourself and your behavior. If you guide her, you two can make the change together. Try ordering FOR her at restruants- where she'd normally order the fettichinni alfredo (FAT!) order a chicken breast salad, hold the dressing or make sure its a light dressing like vinegrette. But you need to see this as an US thing, you will work WITH her is the only way to get her fatass into shape... and of course the insensitive approach is to just tell her she has a fat *** and see how she reacts, she might start working out, or she'd just get really pissed off and bitter and not change much and you would just have a pissed off fatass for a wife instead....

Answer 3

That's not obese. If that kind of weight bothers you, maybe you should think about getting divorced. I don't think your attitude towards fat is going to change. If you can't accept her at that weight do yourselves both a favor and talk about this. Friends of mine made a committment to each other to both get in shape, stay in shape, and keep healthy. If you want her to be in shape, then you should both enter a covenant to do this together for both your bodies etc. By the wording of your question "fatasss into shape" are you looking out for her well being or your personal taste? If you make the committment together, she will go for it... if this is a one sided thing, she should tell you to stick it.

Answer 4

dude,if your calling your wife a fatass,you really dont love her anyway,150 aint obese,i wouldnt care if gena(my wife gained 100 lbs,i still love her the wieght isnt gonna change my love for her nor would it bother me,,,if you married her strictly for looks then go get another woman so she can get a man that appreciates her just the way she is....i hate people who base relationships souly on looks,,,its shallow and selfish..thing is we are all gonna grow old and our bodies are gonna go through changes,and at that point all we have is whats inside and by judging you from your comment it dosent sound like much :(but if it bothers you that much,join a gym with her,make it something you both can enjoy and do together,and support your wife,dont belittle her.
I would almost guarantee you have a big beer gut, flat ***, and saggy man titties, and probably doesnt take a shower but about once a month, and you have room to talk about your WIFE! You better watch out, theres ALWAYS another person willing to take your place! And with that attitude, your going to be alone and wishing you had someone to hold on too, big or not. 150 poundsis not big, however, if it bothers you that bad, the first thing you should stop doing is calling names, and love her and support her, because im sure your ridicule is affecting her weight and happiness. You just need to love her and be there for her, maybe talk to her about how her weight bothers you, and you BOTH eat better and work out together, after all, it never hurts for the BOTH of you to be heathly. But, to sum it all up, your WIFE is NOTTTT fat!! (adams wife)

Answer 5

First off I would quit calling her fat *** because name calling will not get results. Its most likely eating her up inside whether u know it or not. Just the fact that she is over weight is enough. She needs support not name calling. Offer to go to the gym together or start walking everyday...its something u both can do together and its healthy for anybody and everybody overweight or not. Give positive commments not neigative. She is beautiful on the inside or u would not love her. Compliement her on little things make her feel good. When u feel good and feel support its easier to get the right frame of mind and do something about your appearance. Some people have a hard time even losing weight at all even when they try. Maybe lap band would be the key. For now start walking everyday! Be nice!

Answer 6

150 lbs. is not obese, 350 lbs. is obese. If you join her and change you eating habits you will both feel better, I do not suggest you tell her she is a fat ***, Eliminate all junk food from your house. Concentrate on eating proteins and greens. Greens will make you lean! Diets take a lot of commitment, if you just change your eating habits you can lose 1-2 pounds per week. Its the safest way to lose weight. Eat less as well. If you usually eat 9 pieces of chicken eat 8 etc. etc. etc. If you need menu ideas check out Eating in the Zone by Barry Sears,

Answer 7

WELL.. it all depends on how tall she is.. I'm 5'5 and I weigh 145.. I still look damned good.. men still hit on me.. my hubby thinks I'm georgeous.. so.. I don't think that 150 is obese.. for me.

Perhaps it's your bad attitude.. you don't call your wife a Fat @ss.. that's unacceptable. What you should be doing is telling her that being overweight can affect your health.. show her that you CARE about her.. Tell her that you LOVE her no matter what..

She's not going to want to do anything for you if you're going to be treating her bad JUST because she's overweight.. What about love, caring, understanding??? If I were her.. I'd leave your @ss so fast you wouldn't know what happened.

I'd rather have a fat @ss for a wife than an @sshole for a husband.

Answer 8

First of all 150 lbs. is not obese unless she is 3 feet tall. Second of all, name calling never solved anything. If she is smart, she will leave you. Nobody needs to be with someone who is constantly cutting them down. That does nothing for self esteem. If and when she wants to lose weight, she will have to do it for herself, not for anyone else.

Answer 9

oh and your a stud, get off your high horse, instead of cutting her down love her for her. Hey think of it as more junk in the trunk. more to love, i aint skinny but my man loves me, instead of being an *** go on walks and get out and be active, or deal with it or leave, if we all looked a certain way it would be a boring *** world. There are some beautiful fat women out there, monique, queen latifah, emme, i can go on. big is beautiful. so don't start that a**hole.

Answer 10

You are a nasty peice of **** and i hope your wife finds this question you have posted and dumps you *** or kicks you into shape because you dont deserve a wife. Other than that lock her in a room and starve her, throw her the occational seed thats what i do with my wife and you should see the love in her eyes when i take the padlock of the cellar door to feed her seeds...lol

OH DONT FORGET TO THROW COLD WATER AT HER!!!!!!

Answer 11

Whatever dude. 150 is only obese if she's like 3 feet tall, which I highly doubt. Get a life