I always forced myself not to shed tears when I wanted to because people say a man never cry and I always do what is best for me not what I really wanted. Is it too late to turn back?
2006-08-24 03:31:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
It shows maturity when you handle and express your feelings in a healthy way. It is not good to bottle up feelings and you run the risk of depression. If you are already there, ask for help. Maybe you need a life coach. If you are still in your teens it is normal to feel intensely but the person who is able to open up is closer to manhood. I do not mean talk to everyone about these feelings but rather a trusted person or professional counsellor/doctor. Have you a good friend you can talk to? Sounds like life is showing you that we all have to take responsibility for our own lives. The mature person is not afraid to ask for help.
2006-08-24 04:11:24 · answer #1 · answered by mjdp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never too late to turn back or change, every second of your life you are given a new opportunity to make a new choice and change.
It is good to let your emotions out in a healthy way rather than letting them store up inside of you for your entire life. You miss so much when you do not allow yourself to feel and express your emotions in the moment they happen. Allow yourself to cry when you feel like it.
2006-08-24 11:26:02 · answer #2 · answered by Unity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only when it is necessary. But expressing your feelings like crying because of the loss of a love one, you do that in private or it doesn't matter anymore in public or private.
It never is too late. It's just seems more healthy for a people to vent their feelings.
2006-08-24 19:27:22 · answer #3 · answered by FILO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't force yourself to do anything you don't want to do. Its not always bad to show some emotions. You may not be able to turn back but just change your future to the way you want it to be.
2006-08-24 10:46:52 · answer #4 · answered by Tanya D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same question;same answer. No, you should show your emotions. The fact that you feel driven to ask again shows how important it is you you to let go and loosen up. Really.
2006-08-24 10:40:52 · answer #5 · answered by ElOsoBravo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its never too late to turn back with your feelings
2006-08-25 14:17:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its fine if you can handle things by yourself.
But there are times you really wanna let it out, just do so.
You only live once. No time for regrets.
Better to just look ahead for now.
2006-08-26 04:22:49 · answer #7 · answered by Saffren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone cries, and if you need to, you should. whoever told you that men don't cry is an idiot. if you don't cry when you're in pain, how are you going to heal? take some time out for yourself and do what's best for you. and no, i don't think you are doing what's best for yourself; you're doing what you think others want you to do...
2006-08-24 11:03:27 · answer #8 · answered by Dizzie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not.
Let ur feelings out but make it like a man. U know!
2006-08-24 10:39:06 · answer #9 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself dude... accept your feeling as real and your own. it's never too late to change.
2006-08-24 10:42:11 · answer #10 · answered by george 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋