I want it and need it so bad!!?

Question

Attention, sex, affection. He isn't pulling through for me. After 10 years of marriage, what is a girl to do????

Answer 1

go find a nice woman. We do it better anyway =)

Answer 2

Well over time in marriage sometimes excitement and interestwears away. I know that there or classes on how to bring excitement back into a marriage. Who knows he may even be feeling the same way. Talk with him about how you feel and what you want and ask him how he feels in that area. Talking alone may help but if not there are other things that can help bring back interest. Perhaps you should take a romantic trip together or find a way to bring excitement back into the picture.

Answer 3

use the brain god gave u and figure out a way to get what u want with out having to "fight" about it.. 10 years is a long time to just give up, so start doing all u can to get ur husband to realize what u need with out putting him on the defense.. best thing ive found when u have a partner that seems to lose interest no matter what u do, is to totally ignore that person intimately, and be a better you.. meaning, stop catering to him and his ego, although people will complain about being pestered about something theres an ego gratification that comes with someone begging u to do something, so it gives them the power, take the power from them away.. stop touching , kissing ect unless they come to u first.. read a book in bed or just roll over and go to sleep.. when ur awake be happy even if its a pretend happy, get up get dressed do u hair and make up as if u were going out on a first date every day. act confident ..do ur own thing (with out doing anything to breach ur marriage of course) but be independent.. the less u show him attention and the more ur motivating urself to be happy with urself they are going to eventually stand up and take notice although some are knuckle heads and take awhile.. to the point that u have to stop doing their laundry and cooking for them ect.. till they realize hummmm she's not taking care of me anymore before they start asking whats going on.. go buy some new victoria secrets stuff, if nothing else it will make u feel sexier wearing them even if no ones seeing them.. he'll start to wonder whats going on.. be a smart, wise woman, and fight with ur brain, instead of with ur mouth (arguements) be nice, but be alittle cold at the same time.. he'll come around sooner or later, even if its because ur not doing the laundry or the cooking, and when he does let him know, well as soon as u start treating me like ur wife again and not ur roomate, i'll start actting like one, till then .. fend for urself..

Answer 4

How much weigh have you gained in 10 years?
When was the last time that you put on make up?
How many times have you nagged him today?
Are you still wearing those stained sweatpants and oversized t-shirt?
Did you tell him that why is he so foolish to want to go out and eat when there is plenty of good food at home?
Do you have gazillion children?
Do you really think that those grannie panties are sexy? Do you?

Answer 5

Go out and buy some girl toys. Make sex more fun.

Answer 6

I'm there now and know what you're going through. I've been married nine years and recently separated. Now he's trying to get me back. If you find the answer, let me know.

Answer 7

Tell him you need attention, sex, affection.

Answer 8

Talk to him about it.. if that doesnt work.. then I guess you have to go to a marriage counselor for some counseling.

Answer 9

Talk to him about it and see what is going on. He might just be tired or stressed out from work.

Answer 10

I bet if he came home and walked in on ya taking care of yourself solo he'd be all over ya ;)!! He may just need a wake up!!!!!!!!

Answer 11

Move on,get a divorce, live life. Good luck.