my boyfriend of 7 and a half months just broke up with me yesterday.. he had asked me a question about a past relationship afterwards and i answered truthfully.. he then said "i cant believe u did that, i was going to ask you out again, forget it now" he broke the cell fone i bought him and is switching his number, i tried to reach him on AIM but he tells me he doesnt want to talk and that i should leave him alone, last time this happened.. i left him alone and he came running back to me.. i dont think it will happen this time.. what should i do?
2006-08-24 02:19:17 · 14 answers · asked by shortii k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He wanted an excuse to break up with you anyway so he used something from your past, instead of being a man. Most likely he already knew the answer and had talked to the other guy. It is important to talk about things from the past so don't let that steer you away from talking with a new partner. The guy you say dumped you really did you a favor. Don't dwell and move on.
2006-08-24 02:25:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always the best policy to tell the truth,otherwise it will come back and bite you in the butt at some point and time.Yeah the truth may hurt and maby he cant handle the truth.
Maby he jealous of your previous relationships.But for a start this is all in the past and he shouldent be asking about the past if he cant handle it.Is it not now what matters not what happened over 7 months ago.
Ah leave him he will either come running or you can find a better boyfriend, who is not worried about the past.The past is the past.Enjoy x
2006-08-24 02:31:26 · answer #2 · answered by crazybob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave hm alone.. You can't dwell on things you can't change... This man Obviously can't handle the truth, and I can't believe what you did in your previous relationship is that bad... And that he was going to take you back thing is straight GAME...That man has probably moved on by now. I know that your heart may be a little torn but girl MOVE on.... This man is probably WACK in bed and you can find better... I have learned that when people what to leave you, the best thing to do is let them... because they will see that the grass is not green on the other side.. what you tolerated another woman won't.... Just take it one day at a time... You will get it sooner or later.... Keep your head up MA....
2006-08-24 02:41:08 · answer #3 · answered by Shonda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi dear
I dont know what was the thing u said made him upset, any way, if he means that much to you then you need to take it step by step and be wise, do not push him and at the same time dont let much time go with out u contacting him in any way... this way he will all the time will feel that u care and u want him back... i hope that works for u
Best of luck
2006-08-24 02:33:16 · answer #4 · answered by Clark794 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is his way to take a break. MayB he is real inmature What happens n the past is n the past he needs 2 grow up and u don't need 2 b a ping pong ball 4 him. Let him go find someone new someone who loves u no matter about your past. Good Luck
2006-08-24 02:27:14 · answer #5 · answered by Happi @ss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. If he doesn't accept you for being you then he is not worth being with. If he was unable to handle the truth, then let him go handle someone else's truth.
2006-08-24 02:26:24 · answer #6 · answered by hello 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up
2006-08-24 02:27:00 · answer #7 · answered by Raineybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone and move on with your life.
2006-08-24 02:24:37 · answer #8 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on.. hes not the last man earth .. there are more fishes in the sea.. i can assure you u will meet someone much better who appreciates you more..
2006-08-24 02:32:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone as he asked. You won't be able to change him.
2006-08-24 02:22:14 · answer #10 · answered by wayouthere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋