my friend leza really likes a guy called ruben. he said if she buys him some weed he will come up to sheffield from falmouth and stay with her for his holiday.
should she do this or should she move on?
2006-08-24 02:13:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She should grow up and move on. Seriously no girl should have to buy a guy drugs for him to spend time with her that is whack!
2006-08-24 02:36:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's putting conditions of ANY sort on whether he comes to visit or not, she should tell him to get lost. He should be wanting to come and visit HER and spend time with her regardless, not just because she'll buy a weed for him. Cheeky bugger should bring his own!
If she does this for him, it comes across as being desperate, which he'll pick up on and end up abusing it. She should find someone else who will visit and bring something with him for her!
2006-08-24 09:21:08 · answer #2 · answered by mousepotato66 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he doesn't like her enough to spend time with her for nothing in return except her company, she probably won't have a very nice time with him.
He obviously doesn't like her all that much because if he did he would go to Sheffield like a shot to see her.
2006-08-24 09:23:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
2006-08-24 11:10:35 · answer #4 · answered by Bob Simons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no she should move one.cuz for all she knows he could be lying to her about coming up to see her and she could get in alot of trouble with the cops and no guy is worth that.so he probably doesnt even really like her if he is asking her to do something like that for him.
2006-08-24 09:20:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
weed is a cheap drug relatively so if he cant afford it he is already a loser not to mention hes doing drugs anyway drop him if she gives in to this hes just going to keep asking for stuff dont get caught up girl!!!!
2006-08-24 09:20:03 · answer #6 · answered by jarok78 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to buy his own! She supplying board and lodgings. Greedy git!! Besides, he sounds like someone who only wants the weed, not her. Its blackmail.
2006-08-24 09:35:58 · answer #7 · answered by Pixxxie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like ur friend is being used for that purpose, i think she should get shot of him and she'l find a better guy that likes her for who she is and anyway if hes going away why not have some girlie fun at home???.
2006-08-24 09:19:43 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no tell her not to waste her time on him , if he really wanted to see her he wouldn.t need weed to get him to go , seeing her should be a big enough high for him ..... move on ...
2006-08-24 09:24:16 · answer #9 · answered by dalylorraine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, drugs are bad. She shouldnt have to buy him anything for him to see her.
Not only is he a drug user, but a user in general.
Tell him to take a hike.
2006-08-24 09:25:56 · answer #10 · answered by revoltix 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋