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2006-08-24 02:12:43 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I don't think so.
Could you say, "I'm still virgin with boys?" or "I'm still virgin with girls?" I guess so. But what does it really mean?
Physical virginity with a female is in a sense related to the breaking of the hymen, a thin membrane that's in the way of intercourse the first time. But today, especially with our active lifestyles, so many girls break their hymen accidentally and not through sexual activity. Would that girl still be a virgin? Sure.
So real virginity has to do with the maintenance of innocence. So when a female becomes sexually active, I don't think it matters which gender she's with, she's no longer innocent. (Same with guy on guy sex)
Now you need to exam your values and ask yourself why is the label "virgin" important to you.
2006-08-24 02:20:04 · answer #1 · answered by michael941260 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Technically until the hymen is broken a woman is a virgin. Since gay women don't usually penetrate that would mean that yes they are. It would be the same if you and your b/f or g/f only had oral sex. You would both still be *virgins* in the literal sense.
I think with men it's a bit more complicated as there is penetration. Do you give? Receive? Both? Does that make you a virgin? I don't think so but they could still claim virginity of a sorts as they have never had sex with a woman.
2006-08-25 03:45:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A virgin is someone who never had sex, regardless of what gender the person is. If I had sex with a woman and never a guy, I am not a virgin since I did have sex.
2006-08-24 10:20:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Does that make me a well-loved virgin? I certainly wouldn't qualify as "gently-used"! LOL! I have never had sex with a woman and don't consider myself a virgin - actually, quite the opposite!
2006-08-24 22:14:02 · answer #4 · answered by Speedo Inspector 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i asked this question a short time ago lol.
apparently, am not a virgin because although i havent had intercourse with a man, i have with a woman once or twice, so am no longer a virgin.
it seems to be a loss of ignorance of carnal knowledge that means you have lost your virginity. it cant be a loss of innocence as such because that would imply you had done something wrong.
2006-08-24 13:58:37 · answer #5 · answered by swot 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that literately your still a virgin if your cherry's never been popped. But your just not a virgin in other ways, if you have fingered or used a dildo then no you ain't no virgin.
2006-08-25 11:41:21 · answer #6 · answered by sour_apple809 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a bi-sexual I believe that you have 2 virginity's the first time with a man and with a woman.
2006-08-24 09:20:28 · answer #7 · answered by Queen D 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the person's perspective. My first sexual experience was with another girl, it was great. but, i got into a 'normal' relationship with a man to keep family happy. Even though i had already had sex. my boyfriend considered me a virgin....
2006-08-24 16:28:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no...sex is sex, no matter who it's with. I've never been with the opposite sex, and I don't consider myself a virgin....
2006-08-24 11:04:14 · answer #9 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Once you've had sex with anyone regardless of gender, you're no longer a Virgin!!!
2006-08-24 09:18:59 · answer #10 · answered by Radio Ga Ga 73 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋