is it wrong to be introvert ?

Answer 1

Actually, it is a good trait. I am a writer because of being an introvert; but most of the characters are out going. Fancy that!

Answer 2

No, but obviously, the more introvert you are, the less noticed you become. In a corporate world, introverts are less likely to achieve good positions.

There are certainly good qualities for being an introvert. They usually think everything thoroughly before speak it out. They also usually more patient than those extroverts.

While it is good to keep these qualities, introvert people needs to reduce their feelings of insecurity, increase their self esteem, and spend more time socializing.

There are books written to become a 'positive' introvert. Positive introvert mean stay being an introvert without the negative qualities of an introvert.

Answer 3

Not at all. Some people get charged up by interacting with others. Other people find it difficult and exhausting. Know that it's the way you are and it really is okay. It's good to make time for yourself and not be stressed out.

That said, how do you ever meet anyone? Speaking as an introvert, I think a lot of times we come off as distant, or even rude to other people. Like we aren't interested in having friends and making connections, which is totally not true! So keep in mind how you come off to people who may not know you very well. It may take you more effort to reach out to people and show interest in them, but it will be worth it to step out of your comfort zone every once in a while. The more you do the more natural it will feel to be the one striking up the conversation, rather than waiting for someone to invite you or include you.

Answer 4

No generally people are either extroverted or introverted, some of it is just genetic makeup. However if you find being an introvert is limiting for you in social contacts, in living your life , going to work, you can learn to be a little more extroverted by making you do things out of your comfort zone.

Have been reading that for some companies, it's now not your academic qualifications and experience businesses are looking for but how well you fit in (socially) and how much of a positive attitude you have.

Answer 5

In general terms, most people would think that introverts are having some social problem and consider that something must be wrong in us.

But to me, I think differently. If we introverts put aside all the opinions from different people and reallt look into ourself, I am sure there is nothing wrong within us. We are just different, that is all.

Introverts have so much strengths in themselves, yet because they are living in a life that is rather distorted, they are blinded by these untrue ideas that are given by people around him/her. So it is extremely difficult for one to find who he/she really is, the true and clear self image. That means the inner strengths also overshadow by these unfit compliments.

As for yourself, in your life was it someone come up to you and said that you need to change such and such? I think now you can drop their concerns, because they don't know you enough to give you that common. The fact is that not all and most of the commons you have heard were not base on careful study and observation. Quite often you can sense what is true and what is false to you.

Do not be discourage by other's opinions my fellow introvert, you have a lot more in yourself then people think you have. And you will achieve more goals then your parents would think you ever will. The trick is to really look inside youself, find the inner strengths that are hidden, and develop them according to your own progress. Turn inward, and the answer is there.

Good Luck

Answer 6

as we all know, too much or too less of something isn't good! it's not totally wrong to be introvert because there are times, we people need to be alone sometime... but since we are a SOCIAL BEING, let's try to live and open ourselves to others too! an introvert person might prefer to do things on his own... but nonetheless, he should accept the idea that some people would always take notice of him... he should look at it in it's brighter side...

Answer 7

If you gain more from your time alone try to spend more time alone then with people. If you enjoy being around people more then try to be around other people more. It's never wrong to be introverted or shy, or what ever you want to call it.

I was shy for several years... in some ways I still am and it is never a problem.

Answer 8

I think it is not wrong. Rather it is recommended to be introvert.

Answer 9

Its not wrong but Its not easy though.

Answer 10

no but you may miss out on things