when my ex broke up with me he said he wanted to concentrate on his career and become more stable. he said he is not sure if we will be back together, he doesnt know. he told his cousin he still loves me. do you think he is letting me down lightly or there is hope for us?
2006-08-24 01:48:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
we does still try and contact me and some times when he cant get through he does it through someone else. he said if i was to be with someone else he wouldnt be with me agaon.
2006-08-24 02:02:26 · update #1
I think he doesn't know himself. Maybe it is time you take this off your mind for a little while and let time make that decision. He might come back in a year and say, Honey, I'm home! What are you going to do? Jump in his lap and be all happy go lucky? Maybe he could have kept you by his side while he's going through his career change or whatever and you could have been by his side. My opinion, he will probably come back. The question is: are you gonna take him back?
2006-08-24 01:52:39 · answer #1 · answered by can2gone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does it mean......................the picture is clear you just refuse to take a good look. He has already moved on, I suggest you do the same. Yes, its hard cause you still want to be with him, but he is showing all the signs of beginning a new relationship with somebody else.
He also said that if you got with somebody else he would never be with you again.............oh well his lost, don't sit around and wait for this idiot to decide that you are worth being with. He doesn't deserve you.
2006-08-24 09:05:59 · answer #2 · answered by Monie D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is blowing you off because if he really did like you he will want you by his side. But another thing is he might be going through some pressure in his life and thought he might take it out on you. Not in a mean way but i guess he figure something will get better if he told you that
2006-08-24 08:51:50 · answer #3 · answered by justme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hang on to hopes of getting back together with him. Do you really want to be with someone who isn't 500% into being with you? He 'needs time' and this is a wonderful time for you to discover what you want and need. Focus on being true to yourself and everything will fall into place.
2006-08-24 09:08:35 · answer #4 · answered by aerdna2u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a relationship comes to a junction, it require a smart choice by 2 people. Both of you will have equal rights on how you want your life to be...... Perharps he need more time to make his right choice, do respect him in any ways you could. A successful relationship required willingness from both party. Please do not let him felt that you're a burden to him.... Set him free, if he do comes back to you.... He will be yours forever. Good Luck, girl!
2006-08-24 08:54:06 · answer #5 · answered by CH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a good relationship these life goals can be achieved with your partner. Sounds like an excuse to exit the relationship.
2006-08-24 08:52:13 · answer #6 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Letting you down lightly. Move on.. Sorry
2006-08-24 08:49:37 · answer #7 · answered by yournotalone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move on. Don't put your life on hold for someone who is so self-centered. Take care of yourself!
2006-08-24 08:51:10 · answer #8 · answered by chi chi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Letting you down i think
2006-08-24 08:55:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to move on with your life... date other guys, have fun, live... and see if your ex contacts you...
but don't sit in your bedroom waiting by the phone...
2006-08-24 08:50:52 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋