How can I be a nicer person?

Question

People describe me as pretty but unfriendly and always moody. Unlikeable even.

Answer 1

i used to be the same way. just smile a lot more often, and not because you just busted on somebody's outfit. and if somebody's mean to you, do the traditional thing and ignore. eating chocolate is proven to help your mood and boost your energy. compliment on an outfit, and just keep your mouth shut if you don't like someone's outfit. and if you're shy, sometimes people think you're acting stuck up because you're not talking to them.

Answer 2

Now you have pinpointed what you consider to be a character flaw, you have something to work with.

If you genuinely want to be nicer, be aware of your "moods" and concentrate on not having them. No-one likes moody people - they are selfish and self-centred. Try thinking about other people rather than just yourself.

Take an interest in those around you and pay compliments - get your head out of your backside and see the rest of the world.

Remember you might be the most important person in the world to yourself - but don't let others know that is how you feel.

Answer 3

Why are you moody and unfriendly? Are you shy or intimidated? I used to be but i found looking people in the eye and always making an effort to say hello to people at work helped loads. If you are friendly to people and they are rude back then that's their problem.

Answer 4

I know! I know!

Try and offer ADVICE on personal questions rather than rubbish remarks that do no one any favours and actually consume valuable seconds that you could be spending out in the big bad world helping the elderly across the road or buying the big issue or something.

It's such a shame you'll expire having lived your life as a wankhead. But I guess you could be a genuine person just looking for attention. Which I'm giving you cause I'm nice... love handles and all! x

Answer 5

who tells this to u at end of day your you dont change coz of jumped up people who r out to hurt u if u were unfriendly ud have no friends if ur always moody do u feel moody all the time if ur unlikeable its crap the people who r telling u this are bullys if your worried bout it dont enjoy life and dich the people who tell u ur worthless and find some decent people to hang with

Answer 6

i think u shud put an effort to smile n take interest, genuine interest in people around u. take time to learn about them, as u go u will find it natural. u will then get to know who to open up to n not to.

friends are the greatest treat to life, but even more so is the ability to get on wiz different types of people from all walks of life n not be self consumed. girl, don u know that u HAVE the ability to make sum1 a really happy person- not romantically inclined or anything but by being another human being in they time of need.

jus think like being so nice n friendly to a stranger n shaping their turning point? u find Jesus too, girl..He gives u this unexplainable joy u jus gotta be nice, kinda like u cant contain it!! thats faith!!

be happy, don scowl..i do believe u pretty- real pretty if i may say so.. tis about time to show the world all that prettiness INSIDE u, if u ask me!!!

XXX lol n hugs...

Answer 7

Do something for someone every day, be relaxed and kind, smile and mot of all think positive- the reason for your behaviour maybe due to some negative thoughts about yourself and the world around you so see the good things in life and live it as if every day was your last.

Answer 8

A genuine smile is good enough to melt one's heart. Give it generously everyday. It is free. Even the not-so-pretty-looking lady will look likeable and beautiful if she has a ready smile for everybody.

Answer 9

well if u know that ur not a nice person u know u need to change . u need to find out why u are so moody and work on it from there

Answer 10

hey ya!
Nobody can think that someone is moody or just bad!
If people describe u as pretty girl,so i think it's very cool,cuz the most people are cruel.So keep on funkin and be nice for yourself!