What qualitites makes an Ideal man? What makes a man attractive? What is true strength?

Question

I am searching to become the best person, Human Being that I could possibly be. Holisticly. So this would include matters relating to Physical, Spiritual and Mental levels. Ultimately this would progress to becoming the Ideal partner in marriage. I do realise that this is part fantasy as there is no prefection but I truly believe that it can become reality. Thank you for your help wherever you are, whoever you be.

Answer 1

5 important ingredient required to be the ideal man:

Honesty, Respect, a good sense of Humor, Love and Dedication

Answer 2

Not only it depends on the person, but also on the moment in life.

For a 20 yrs old, lively and extrovert, an outgoing and partying partner would be more fun and definitely more interesting. Then as you go on a different part of life, with house, children, responsabilities, the needs evolve.

I think the best partner is one who is able to stay in synch with the other, who listen and grow together - without compromising but with a true wish to find common ground. This path has to be shared by both, otherwise it is a very sad and lonely tentative.

I would suggest that rather than trying to become ideal, you may also want to look into what makes a partner ideal for you. By ensuring that you look for the right person, you may narrow down the mistakes... but you also may loose the magic.

Answer 3

being yourself helps. Many women find different types of men attractive ie some of my friends get turned on by real gangsters and find them irrisistable but I cant stand see anythnig attractive in gangster I love my gentlemens.

In general though the following makes an ideal man

Gentleman
Inteligent
polite
Firm (not physically)
attentive
doesnt over flatter a woman
physique and looks only matter at first.
dont be a yes man (but dont always say no of course)

all the best

Answer 4

You may want to get some counseling before that becomes a problem (if it hasn't already.) All of us are human and we all make mistakes. However, we all have different things we tolerate and different things we won't. This goes from a cheating spouse to leaving the toilet seat up. Find out your wives pet peeves, find out her likes and dislikes and go from there. But be warned, you will make mistakes. The only thing that we can do is try our best. Whenever making a decision just ask yourself, "What would Jesus do?" It's hard to remember that sometimes, but, Jesus was the only perfect one. You may want to relax and try to accomplish something attainable, such as good grades or perfect attendance.

Answer 5

I'd say it's important to listen to people, treat them with respect & dignity, to be kind and generous of spirit. As a marriage partner I believe that some of the biggest problems come from misunderstanding and not being in tune, pay attention to people, take note of the little things, don't harbour grudges, always put yourself in their shoes and think before you speak. Be considerate, be whole within yourself, never look for others to complete you, you will be disappointed. Lower your expectations but not your standards.

Answer 6

I think you should stop focusing on this and live your life to the full. This is not a rehearsal, don't waste precious time trying to be something you are not, no-one is perfect and thats what makes us all unique. That sounds like something out of some naff magazine or something but its true...

Answer 7

A woman most likes an honest man and one who can be theirselves but you can't be like that unless you meet the right person...whilst looking for that person you need to be confident and love yourself (in a good way) and hey presto you will find the one! i truly believe that! i don't think money comes into it.

Answer 8

Good Luck

Answer 9

i think our behaviour and how much can we can affect on hte other people and i htink we must have a sweetie mouth to be an ideal man. i htink that and i dont know what about u?

Answer 10

u just have to be yourself..anything else will be fake and noticed...start reading, going to theaters, listening to opera, to all the kinds of music, watch moovies do some sports...do everything and keep what u like....then u will be perfect!!!