Hello- I know "exactly" what you are feeling and going through. We went through that for 2 1/2 years! The roller coaster of trying and taking pregnancy tests for being a few days late to find it is negative. And seeing other parents with kids and thinking will I ever be a mom! Very very emotional indeed. You have to hit it at the right time to get pregnant they say. There really is only a small window to conceive. Why some can get pregnant the first time who knows but trying too hard can also delay the process. Have you both seen a DR? is everything medcially fine with you and your husband? Are you of older age say in 30's or..? As we age it is harder to get pregnant too. I was 37 when it finally happend and now I am 41 with a almost 4 yr old son in a few weeks. 2 1/2 yrs is a long time that we went through it and we have freinds of ours who even went longer than that and now have 2 boys ages 5 and 3. So dont give up and maybe plan a time away from home like we did, that is when it happened when it wasnt under stress. Hang in there! Prayers are good also. :)
2006-08-24 01:17:05
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answered by yeppers 5
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One of the things I used to notice when I was TTC is that when my husband and I had sex I used to not even enjoy it because I was just thinking, God please let it be it this time! then I realized that I had to just forget about the baby and enjoy the sex. In a matter of a few weeks I was pregnant. It is frustrating and negative tests make it worse, you feel like you will never get pregnant, Oh girl I have been there and it is not nice, but the best you can do is relax. Try these products www.fertilefocus.com to predict ovulation, www.preseed.com to help with lubrication, have sex every other day and lay down with your hips slightly up after intercourse for at least 20 minutes around your fertile days. Good luck and I'll say a prayer for you.
2006-08-24 08:54:17
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answered by Lilly 5
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This is my standard answer......... go get a book called Taking Charge of your fertility by Toni Weschler. It will help you understand your body and all the myths about it. It will help you time when you are ovulating and the best times to conceive. My Doctor recommended it to me and after 1 year of trying I got the book. It worked the very next month. It turns out that my timing was wrong due to mis-information. I hope it helps you, too! It's not only about getting pregnant. It's about knowing your body and knowing when you are fertile or not. You can pick and choose what you do with your info. Good luck and don't listen the all the myths!
2006-08-24 11:48:54
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answered by jachooz 6
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Sure, Supate. Keep the faith :) Would you like a boy or a girl?
* I'm not sure if you have heard of the story of Sarah in the bible. Don't lose hope, ok.
I said a prayer for you. When your obstetrician confirms the good news, remember Jesus, ok, because I prayed in his name. Promise me.
Hear from you again.
2006-08-24 08:06:32
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answered by Muffin 4
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keep praying and have faith. I have to every day. It does get hard and very emotional and sometimes you wonder why me. I have thought that so much, but when God is ready for you to bear a child, you will. I will keep you in my prayers.
2006-08-24 12:40:22
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answered by stacydeets 2
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I'm praying for you now sweetie! I know how you feel!
2006-08-24 14:41:37
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answered by KK 5
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why not god he love people who pray always
2006-08-24 08:09:58
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answered by cute sam 4
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I will pray for you.
2006-08-24 10:51:26
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answered by latingirl0527 4
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prayers aren't going to help squat. get yourselves to a fertility clinic.
2006-08-24 08:07:37
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answered by Anonymous
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I WILL SURE
2006-08-24 08:11:12
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answered by Shammi 3
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