Okay say your partner isn't the skinniest when you first met them......you've been with them for a while..a few years....and all of a sudden they get on this health kick....drop weight....(in a healthy way).......like 20 or 30+ pounds.....and you love them...but still....how much more would that make you attracted them? They might look almost like a totally different person.....but in a good way.....how much would that attract you and what would you think? Thanks!
2006-08-24 01:00:08 · 19 answers · asked by Bailey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Master Der Man.........i'm a girl.......and I lost weight......not that's any of your business....but don't assume what you don't know
2006-08-24 01:09:46 · update #1
I think it's great!!! I think if you love some one you would want to look your best for them!!!Also you want to be healthy!I think it is really a turn on when my wife is healthy and feels good about her body!
2006-08-24 01:05:02 · answer #1 · answered by alanstorment 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love should never be based on looks, if ur basing it on looks then it will never work in the long run cause enevitably every man and woman will get old and wrinkly and wont look the same as they did 20, 30 years ago.. But also remember what u find attractive about yourself and what your spouse finds attractive about you could very well be 2 completely different things.. as far as physically.. and also in some cases when one spouse starts to look better .. it can make the other feel insecure.. maybe about themselves, or even possibly the motives behind the sudden change of needing to be something else..
My sister for example.. was a heavier set person when she married her first husband.. and he loved her the way she looked already ect.. then a couple years after marriage, she lost alot of weight.. and her confidence went through the roof, to the point that it actually changed her personality.. other men started paying her attention, and she fed into the ego gradification of it, .he got insecure, he started to drink more then before and unfortunately it lead to the demise of their marriage..
But the most important thing is to be happy with urself, as long as ur happy with ur self whether ur skinny, thick, or heavy.. then thats what matters, but dont let it change who u are on the inside (its one thing to feel better about urself its another to play with fire just because u can now), and your spouse should love u no matter what u look like..
2006-08-24 01:13:32 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I met my husband I was thin as a electric pole and after the kids I've expanded quite a lot. Now I've lost most of my expansion and my husband is quite thrilled in one way, but on the other hand he seems more possessive of me now. I needed to buy new clothes for my thinner self and with today's clothes it is rather snug and cut low. Granny clothes are of the past I guess.
2006-08-24 01:17:47 · answer #3 · answered by sakura4eternity 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 02:13:53 · answer #4 · answered by hinnant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a great chance to spend more time together. Why don't both of you do the same exercises and eat healthy. Nothing wrong with that and it gives you more time to have a common ground and get closer. Congrats!
2006-08-24 01:11:11 · answer #5 · answered by jennifer c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't attract me to them any more or less. I don't go on looks alone but they whole person and personality. It would be a good thing though they would live a healthier life and probably longer.
2006-08-24 01:04:25 · answer #6 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Physical attraction may be enhanced by losing weight, but true love is more than skin deep.
2006-08-24 01:48:31 · answer #7 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would think practical stuff not romantic stuff...for example that my wife was going through a midlife crisis or her doctor told her to lose weight for her health.
2006-08-24 01:08:55 · answer #8 · answered by Answers1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is not something that you fall in and out of, you love someone, it is for better or worse and you love them for what is inside, not just the outside and I hope that this helps! Good luck and God bless!
2006-08-24 07:05:39 · answer #9 · answered by iLoveDawnDawn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it would make me love them any more or less....or be attracted to them any more or less. I'd be proud of their accomplishment and be happy for thier health, but I'd love them the same.
2006-08-24 01:03:24 · answer #10 · answered by MrsMike 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋