why do you think its better to have love without marriage than marriage without love?

Question

please give your opinion why love without marrige is better.

Answer 1

It's better to have love regardless of marriage. How can one marry without it? Sure you can lose it,but love is like a flower, no matter how many times it dies,it can renew it's self,better and longer than the last.

Answer 2

Because with marriage, when you're having episode after episode of endless, pointless, and often recurring tiffs, the relationship slowly dies. Your life is wasted due to the marriage and the complications of divorce; you keep hoping "it'd get better", either that, "stay together for the kids" or you don't want to have the stigma of divorce attached to them.
But with love, you're free to do whatever you please without arousing the neighbors' suspicion, not that you care about them. It's this very freedom that appeals to most intellectuals.
Marriage is perceived as a "spiritual bonding" by some, even a rise to stardom or popularity; these reasons aside, it's nothing but an official contract involving a couple of rings. Humans are not meant to practice monogamy, so why not live life to the fullest?

Answer 3

its not better.. a marriage with out love is in for a life time of misery..But if they've made a vow then they need to find the love they once had for each other again, doesnt mean u should just throw in the towel..

But if ur asking prior to marrying which is better, then id rather have a love with out the piece of paper, basically u can still live as husband and wife even if u dont get married, its not right by gods standards but our society says its acceptable, look at Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell theyve been together for over 20 years even have a child together and yet they arent tech. married.

Answer 4

love with marriage is definately a better option - marriage is just a piece of paper after all and is not a sign of committment. If it was married people wouldn't have affairs! You can be committed without the wedding vows but if you marry without love whats the point in that - a bit of paper won't make you happy love will

Answer 5

I have been in a marriage without love. Give me love without marriage any day.

Answer 6

Love without marriage. What kinda marriage is it without love? Marriage is hard enough even in the most perfect settings but to do it without love is impossible!

Answer 7

Huh?? How/Why would you even ask?? Are you so desperate, so afraid to be on your own, that you would hang on to a relationship that you KNOW is wrong for you?? Pathetic!! What makes you think that you will never love again?? You most certainly will!! The fear of being "alone" is the reason there are so many unhappy, miserable marriages. Miserable parents, and the most sad of all, miserable kids....then, guess what?? Your kids live what they've learned....DAMN!! Get a grip!!

Answer 8

cuz the love without marrige doesnt have a resposibilty as marrige without love cuz i think it is running away from the life resposibilty but i think that the good man thinking is choosing the marrige without love more than the other cuz it is the true and thats my opinion about this supjject.
take care

Answer 9

I would rather prefer love with marriage but since not given the option (love without marriage) and i do not mean (sex) I mean love as a strong emotion

Answer 10

I think love without marriage is better--then you can sometimes be with the one you love, versus always being with someone you don't.