My boyfriend and I havent had 1, we have been together 6 months, and we are both really happy, I dont want one, but I just wondered if we are doing well?
2006-08-24 00:42:18 · 38 answers · asked by ME 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Been with my boyfriend a little more than two years, and we don't argue. We disagree sometimes, but because we're both pretty smart and listen to each other, our disagreements don't turn into arguments and our feelings are left in tact. Some people say arguing is normal, and I think it is...it's when those arguments turn into screaming matches, and people start throwing out insults that you need to worry. For the first time in my life I have a boyfriend who I have tons of things in common with...so there's no need to argue. It's not the number of arguments that matters anyway, it's (HOW) you argue that matters.
2006-08-24 00:46:44 · answer #1 · answered by Kerry 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
NO FIGHTS? It doesnt always means your happy, maybe you guys need to get to know each other better. In life, there is always ups and downs. Same goes to love. In a relationship with no fights, sounds perfects isnt it? Trust me, its not. There are things being hidden, someone isnt happy, you dont know whats inside someone's heart until he/she tells u. So, wake up, this isnt a happy fairytale where you and your prince live happily together. Its impossible, life is never perfect. How sure are you that the BOTH OF YOU are happy? Maybe you are, he isnt. Well, hope what your saying is true.
Trust me, you want fights in a relationship, its makes the bond stronger, you learn alot, i mean alot about each other. And the make up part is always fun. So, there is nothing wrong in having fights in a relationship.
I thinnk you better think again abou not wanting to have fights. A relationship without any fights at all, it rather boring, no dramas, not interesting. Plus its only been 6 months, but seriously, you never fight even once, r u sure he is happy ?
2006-08-24 00:53:01 · answer #2 · answered by Farah_Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well on one hand i think its great you get on so well. your temperaments must work together and maybe neither of you are that argumentative to start with.
i dont think there is anything wrong with this at all!!!!!
i would say though that you may have some difficulties coping with or working through your first lot of arguments just because neither of you are experienced in coping with how the other one reacts in this situation.
additionally arguments may be hard to deal with at first because you both probably have quite an idealized view of what your relationship is at the moment....... purely because there hasnt been disagreements. I guess by this im saying....... dont fool yourself, arguments will come eventually.
but you will eventually work out how you both deal with less than amicable situations.
that can be learned.
i think its great you both get on so well
2006-08-24 00:49:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Glad you are happy! Don't worry about it. The only thing I would say is that sometimes if you don't have an argument it means that you are afraid to bring up issues that are bothering you. It is best to sort them out. The main thing is, if you do have an argument, resolve it straight away so that there is no bad feeling hanging over. My hubbie and I always do this and kiss and make up within minutes. I have to confess I am a bit intrigued as to why you should bring this up?!!!!!
2006-08-24 00:46:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we had an arguement before we even got together - we didnt speak for 6 months!! we were both drunk though.
We've now been living together for a month and (touch wood) we've not yet had an argument. Although to be honest that's because he's actually really tolerant, I'm a stroppy cow but he just lets me get on with it...
2006-08-24 01:05:25 · answer #5 · answered by ladyjinx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time in a relationship I've had differences of opinion is from Day 1.
2006-08-24 00:44:49 · answer #6 · answered by Answers1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God I had one on my first date!! Been together for over a year now and we argue regularly. So yes, if you want a relationship without arguments you are doing very well.
2006-08-24 00:44:12 · answer #7 · answered by fearsome_gibbon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the best relationship are made out of numerous arguments... if you havent argued yet it may be that you are both insecure or you have a very boring relationship.
2006-08-24 00:45:02 · answer #8 · answered by -mystery- 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My boyfriend and I didn't argue for at least a year, if not longer.
It's always the same in the early days because you're in the honeymoon stage.
When you start to feel more comfortable with each other and more secure in your relationship, you'll definately start to argue.
2006-08-24 00:44:39 · answer #9 · answered by Wafflebox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not arguing - don't worry about it!! It sounds like you WANT to have an argument!
You are very lucky to have found someone that you get on with all the time.....
2006-08-24 00:47:34 · answer #10 · answered by Lupee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋