Its been about two weeks since i have split up with my girlfriend. I am still in contact with her and have slept with her 4 times of which it has resulted in sex. We know there isnt a future for us thats why have broken up. I still love her and want to be with her but its hard to move on considering ive been in her life for eight months, seeing her every day, going out with her etc. Disregarding being with some friends just to be with her.
I want to put an end to this and toltally stop seeing her because its good for me.
She is currently on dates with someone at work. She said, hes not her type but its a lie. She is seeing him but denies it. I read her text messages and its clear she has slept with him once or twice.
I still love her but i want her out of my life for good. She wants me in her life as a friend.
I have tried to stay away but it has only reached 2 days before i contacted her. Its always me contacting her. It hurts so much thinking about them two. Please help
2006-08-24 00:29:46 · 11 answers · asked by xadamx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Look Dude...she is playing you for a sucker. She is seeing some one else. Dump her and move on.
2006-08-24 00:34:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard, but it sounds like your EX girlfriend is moving on with her life. Maybe she doesn't want to admit to you that she is seeing this new guy because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings, or maybe she's not sure if the new relationship will work out and she wants you around for a back up plan. Either way, it's wrong, and you do need to start moving on with your life.
First off, stop having sex and sleeping with her. If she's having sex with someone else after just a few weeks, there is a good chance that she could get an STD and pass it on to you.
Stop calling her, and if you feel the urge to call her, do something else instead (go running, play a game, listen to music, anything.) If she calls you don't answer, or tell her you need some space.
2006-08-24 07:39:08 · answer #2 · answered by anabele6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all STOP SLEEPING WITH HER! then take some time for yourslf and realize that if she keeps coming back when you call then you must be either one heck of a bed partner or someone she definitely thinks is worth her time. if you're worth her time then you are worth someone more worthys time. maybe the problem isn't with her not gettng it; it's more like you not getting over it. either way you need the distance. if she'll cheat on him with you she'll cheat on you as well. is that really what you want? being friends is impossible right now because you are still tooo close to her. give your feelings and your self distance and time to see what else is there with a lot more appreciation of a man who wants a REAL relationship.
2006-08-24 07:46:31 · answer #3 · answered by slysandlin@verizon.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up is a very difficult thing to do. However breakups are necesarry once two people find out that they really are not compatible. Continuing to be "just friends" only prolongs the inevitable. It's sounds to me like you are really hurting over this. People will say just move on but believe me that is really the best thing that you can do. She obviously has.
2006-08-24 07:45:39 · answer #4 · answered by Pamela S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand that she still wants to be friends, but you need to think about what you want. You're right, keeping in contact with her will not allow you to get over her (at least in my experience). And sorry to tell ya, but she can do whatever and whomever she wants now without having to answer to you. It will be hard, but tell her that you can't be around her right now and if she insists, avoid her at all costs. I know it's very difficult, but it'll get easier soon.
2006-08-24 07:36:17 · answer #5 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u love something let it go if its meant 4 u it'll come back but for now continue your life get active dont waste your exitence in the past uncertainity
2006-08-24 07:37:31 · answer #6 · answered by Ace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could never understand when people tell they want to be friends when relationship is over. what is that for? to hurt u more? to see your humiliation? u have to be strong man, and do not fool yourself with that "friend" stuff. just go to gym, go out with guys more, try meet new women. they all re basically the same as soon as u screw with their heads. good luck
2006-08-24 08:05:17 · answer #7 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry to hear about your pain. heartaches can really be nasty especially if you loved someone so deeply.
if you keep confining yourself to think about her always, chances are, you will call or contact her again. it is obvious that she is having the playing game with you, either to get you back or to just get you jealous.
mingle yourself with some new people who can be fun to be with.
good luck
2006-08-24 07:41:30 · answer #8 · answered by Busy Diyosa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up! She is with someone else.
Move on.
2006-08-24 08:00:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is sleeping with some one else
2006-08-27 09:31:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋