Like no matter how long you think about a particular problem and no matter how many times you go over it, you just aren’t sure what to do...what decision to make? And do you think that, that feelin inside you has only increased as you get older....like as if you used to be more sure about everythin when you were younger?
2006-08-23 22:43:41 · 12 answers · asked by Jaded 7 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
that's called learning -- and it also means that you have some consideration for the situation and the people it might involve and ther is nothing wrong with that either. but sometimes you do have to do what you think is best even if it seems lousy just try to remember what you learn from the choice and be willing to make ammends to the people that it might harm in the process but you have to do good for yourself in order to do good for others
and yeah i feel that way too from time too time and i still make bad decisions --(sigh!!)
2006-08-23 22:55:25 · answer #1 · answered by lesdrake2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound shocky. I use that word, "shocky" to describe the weird numb lost place I go whenever I take a hit in life. You describe it well. I'm just coming out of one . . . about 75% back to normal, so to say. When you're shocky, hon, you really aren't capable of making many decisions. This is when you ask for help. I mean professional counseling. It will help you RIGHT away and you can get on with your life much sooner. Good luck.
2006-08-24 06:31:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when your younger life is easier, living off parents Money, hanging with friends, no illnesses, nothing to bother you or worry you. Now as we get older life seems to bog us down, make us tired,everything. I think everyone feels this way at times oir most of the time. I sure do. I think it's the old devil that wants to place worry in our hearts and doubt in minds.We just have to pray to God when this happens.
2006-08-24 06:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by SecretUser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all the time. its coz when you are a kid you know your family will always be there , when you fall they'll pick you up and kiss you and tell you everythin is going to be alryt, but as you grow up you realise they wont always be there and you need to start picking yourself up coz there wont always be people there to help you and also as you get older you start picking up people and kissing them and trying to be strong for them, coz if your not, who will be there??...noone, so you have to grow up and take responsibility and help those smaller than you the way others once did for you.
2006-08-24 06:04:22 · answer #4 · answered by firefly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea! felt like that 3years ago. Extremely hard decision making going on in my life, and i made the wrong choice.
Stil living the result of that mistake.
2006-08-24 05:47:47 · answer #5 · answered by destiny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the older u are, the more fear you have. you fear about making mistakes cos you are deemed mature and grown up, thus u cant afford to make mistakes like a kid anymore. you have an image to uphold. ignorant is a bliss. that is why kids dare to do lots of things, cos they dun know the consequences/danger behind.
2006-08-24 05:52:28 · answer #6 · answered by skai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right Now I am completely lost,every thing is messed up with family and work,but no way I have to solve it and try to bring in shape again.Thank you.
2006-08-24 06:11:35 · answer #7 · answered by lucky s 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
feel totally lost about certain decisions. usually talk with a trusted friend...you know the one who knows about all the skeletons in the closet and still likes you anyway.
2006-08-24 18:19:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...many times...
weneva i try to study a subject called foundation course.....
weneva i m with the wrong place or wrong group of people
2006-08-24 09:27:36 · answer #9 · answered by !i!i!i!FaRnAzA!i!i!i!i 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and I'm stilling finding my way back home.
2006-08-24 06:12:04 · answer #10 · answered by Dawn Treader 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋