im 13 and im pregnant wat do i do
2006-08-23 22:36:14 · 19 answers · asked by divalysha 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Have you picked out names?
2006-08-23 22:51:20 · answer #1 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Oh my god , you are just a kid. I am sorry to hear that, but you should have known better to have unprotected sex, or any sex for that matter at your age. I do not agree with abortion because it is not a form of birth control and you will regret it forever. You need to talk to an adult, a parent, aunt, etc. Go to a family planning center ASAP. Let this be a lesson learned, you are to young to experience anything of this magnitude. You need to be in school focusing on your future so you can enjoy the rest of your life. This will affect everything........please talk to someone asap, I know you are scared but you do not have any options at this point. Consider adoption so that child can have a good home....
2006-08-24 02:03:33 · answer #2 · answered by ShanaJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babys having babies there should be a law against it, You are going to have to skip your teenage years and grow up and be a big girl within the next 7-9 months, Since your two young to get a job I guess all of us US tax payers will be paying for the mistake you made because you thought you could handle something that was ment for adults. You play you pay, now go on and tell mommy and daddy and pray they dont ground you for the rest of your life. Silly kid
2006-08-24 04:01:28 · answer #3 · answered by landscaperschick73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look up alternatives pregnancy center in your area. they are a great place for support for someone with an unexpected pregnancy. But first, tell your parents. You need their support right now. They can help you with your health care options while you are pregnant. Please make sure you have regular OB visits while you are pregnant, it is important for the health of your baby. At your age, you could have a high risk pregnancy. After you have the baby. Ask your parents for birth control, it is not easy having a child at a young age, but you need to look at your future and face the good and bad consequences of your actions. Tell your parents. good luck.
2006-08-23 23:12:18 · answer #4 · answered by hazel eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is quite young to be pregnant,but i am not one to judge so im not going to.I would advise you to consult with your parent(s),guardian(s),and/or a trusted adult about this situation.You will also need to see an obgyn.They can help you make sure your baby is healthy,and can help keep you and your baby healthy.You have 9 months to think about your options.You can have this baby and raise it yourself,or you can give this baby up for adoption.I believe in no circumstances is abortion acceptable,that is my opinion.Now,if you choose to give this child up for adoption,you can have an open adoption which allows you to be apart of this babys life.They will keep contact by phone,email,pictures,etc.You could also set up weekly or monthly visits with the child.If you choose to keep it remember that you are responsible for this child.You are going to have to work really hard,stay in school and get your education.It will be hard,but it isnt impossible as many females do it everyday.You can also once the baby is born contact your local wic office,or even while your pregnant.Before the baby is born they will help you with food.Once the baby is born they will help your purchase formulas.You can also contact your local welfare office as they can help you with health care for your baby,they can help provide you with a bit of money to help you along,and they can also help you get started with the process of child support.After you have this child,whichever option you choose please go back to the doctor and get put on birth control.It isnt 100% effective as well as it doesnt prevent the contraction of std's so make sure you have another form of protection available to you.Good luck and please be careful and if you need someone to talk to feel free to email me.
2006-08-24 00:58:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make an appointment IMMEDIATELY with YOUR OB/GYN. Your pregnancy will be considered HIGH RISK due to your YOUNG age.
Decide what you will do with your baby once you deliver.
Contact your local Mental Health Clinic AND Juvenile Services for an evaluation.
Also contact your local Child & Family Services for programs for girls in your situation - Teen Pregnancy!
2006-08-23 22:43:51 · answer #6 · answered by jennifersuem 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi. OMG..... Ihope the father is staying with you. I thionk that it is stupid for everyone to call u a slut and all that crap. Maybe u used a condom and birth control but u just got unlucky. U are only 13, you want to try things and i don't blame you. please e mail me. i am 11 and hell, i wannna try it some time but not now..... u r old enough to have sex. i mean u might be rellly mature. but please e mail me at live_love_laugh6795@yahoo.com and i can help u. sometimes it just helps to have someone there for you, ya know? I wish u all the best good luck and god bless u!
2006-08-24 11:09:34 · answer #7 · answered by Jillian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH MY FREEKING HECK!!!!!!!
Email me, you and I will talk and I will take care of your baby! You go on and finish school, paint your toes, bake some cookies, walk your puppy, have sleep over parties, play with your barbies, play in the park, go down some slides....just have fun and I will send you all the pictures of your baby while I take care of it.
ARE YOU STUPID ?????????
NOW look what you have done!
You will NOT BE ABLE TO LIVE A TEENAGE LIFE!
YOU WILL NOT BE ABLE TO HAVE FUN sleepover parties cause you will be too BUSY CARING FOR A BABY!
ARE YOU ON DRUGS?????????????????????????????
YOU NEED TO REPORT THAT GUY THAT KNOCKED YOU UP so he will GO TO JAIL!
AFTER YOU HAVE THIS BABY, GET ON BIRTH CONTROL, the pull out method and CONDOMS AREN'T THE BeST!!!!!!!!!!
OH MY FREEKING HECK..... YOU ARE NOT EVEN AN ADULT YET!
WHY ARE YOU HAVING SEX?
DO YOU EVEN KNOW WHAT SEX IS....oh, that's right, you lay down, spread your legs, laugh and giggle and THERE YA GO, YOU HAVE A BABY, that's all there is too it RIGHT????
W R O N G !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
GROW UP....Oh, wait, it's too late! DAMN! MY BAD!
WHERE ARE YOUR PARENTS...DEAD ???? sorry, don't mean that rude but SHOOT, WHO IS TAKING CARE OF YOU????
DAMN!
YOU NEED TO GET YOUR BUTT TO A DOCTOR RIGHT NOW, GO TO THE HOSPITAL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Your body is WAY TOO DAMN YOUNG FOR THIS....
WHY DID YOU DO THIS TO YOURSELF...
DON'T MIS UNDERSTAND WHAT I MEANT BY THAT, YOU ARE TOO DAMN, TOO GOSH DARN STINKIN' Y O U N G
FOR THIS TO HAPPEN..
Having a baby is a wonderful thing, BUT YOU ARE A BABY YOURSELF...YOU DO NOT HAVE ANY IDEA WHAT TO DO TO RAISE A BABY.........
HERE, Let's put it even MORE honest and BLUNT...
YOUR SCREWED!
Have a nice LIFE.....LITTLE GIRL!
Oh, but still PLEASE email me so we can talk and I will take care of your baby so you can live a NORMAL teenage life!
2006-08-23 23:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by Cherries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 13 and i am keeping my legs shut till I get married. I have a BF but I am not going to have sex with him
2006-08-24 03:58:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, definetly talk to your parents or another trusted adult.
you need to go to the doctor soon
how do you know you are pregnant for sure??
after you go to the doctor,
if the doctor says you cancarryout a baby full term, consider adoption.
please avoid abortion.
2006-08-23 22:43:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
give a correct detail ma, wait don't get upset, how many days, how did u come to no, did u tell to ur boyfriend, if its less than 3 months we can do anything u just give me details, i will tell u, you r a very small girl, dont take any step immediately
2006-08-23 22:59:09 · answer #11 · answered by swarna l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋