I have had this with a few of my ex's... we go to a club or something and a guy will come and chat her even though I have my arm around her.
I just ignore it most of the time....
What do you do?
2006-08-23 21:54:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
ha ha! this actually happened to me the other day too...
My husband and I were in the store...we ran out of milk or something...and when we were at the check out paying this rather wide eyes and I guess she was cute, brunette was serving us and she started to check my hubby out when i was right there next to him. after about 2-3 mins of full on flirting and dribble she looked at me as if to say who are you???? i laughed at loud and my husband and the cute brunette looked at me like i was from another planet. my reply? "oh sorry sweetheart...i cant get my head around whats more amusing....the fact that she is flirting in front your wife? or the idea that she thinks she actually stands a chance? i thought you liked tight women...well you didn't marry me cause i can cook. wink wink" took the milk and walked off while hubby paid and apologised.
the ride home he was rather quiet...."oh comon'" i said. " you cant tell me that wasn't called for....besides you like the fact i am bitchy....i like being selfish over you"
his reply chuffed, "how neat 2 brunettes to fight over me...OUCH!"
2006-08-24 23:45:29 · answer #1 · answered by sirrena_lives 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What Do YOU Do When........... Someones Chatting Up YOUR PARTNER?
I just ignore it most of the time...
>>>>>>>>>>>>>> this you do because you trust her and that's very good in your relationship.I'm happy for you both.
What do you do?
What I do is basically the same as how you'd been acting.
Like you,in our relationship we also established trust, respect and independence.
Begin to worry when there's a significant absence to any of those properties,lack hereof or suffocatingly too much flow of emotions..beware.
2006-08-24 05:04:59 · answer #2 · answered by cascadingrainbows 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah its bad. A lot of guys think they have automatic possession of women who looks good because they assume the woman is trying to get laid. I'm very flirty, But if I am with a guy things are completely different.
If ever I am with a guy and some horndog comes swaggering up to me .."hey baby how you doing..." I try to be polite , give them a quick smile but without encouraging any more conversation. Then I turn to my man and ignore them. If they persist, I say something like "Hi, excuse me but I'm having a conversation with my man. THANK YOU." (The "thanks" is important, only the drunkest most ignorant guy will persist if you "thank" them for leaving you alone-it's a male ego respect thing)
If they are drunk and you reject their advances too harshly it can sometimes turn ugly.
Perhaps you need to work on your "bar presence". Guys will always size up the competition for a girl. Your girl needs to be aware of how to get rid of them.
good luck
Marissa x
2006-08-24 05:16:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up to her to ignore the guy. There's nothing you can do. If she doesn't respect you enough not to talk to other guys then leave her there and let her ride home with someone else.
2006-08-24 05:02:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You POLITELY take your partner somewhere else, or start kissing her, and if none of this works, kick some a55!! that should work without doubt! but if its a big guy, i suggest the first 2 options!! =D
2006-08-24 05:12:55 · answer #5 · answered by antoni_m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two ways:
One way is to punch this guy and knock his teeth out. Or you can use your baseball bat, hit on his head.
Another way is to let him have sex with your partner and watch them while they're doing so. Don't interfere! I don't like u to take part.OK?
Which way do u like best?
2006-08-24 05:07:06 · answer #6 · answered by mypetispig83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I wouldn't take kindly to it, coz it's disrespectful if your obviously with them. But I wouldn't be with someone I didn't trust them, so I would trust them and and leave it at that. But if in the mood I would be quite blunt to the idiot who had no respect for others and tell them so. :)
2006-08-24 05:16:23 · answer #7 · answered by Purplgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Serve them rice
2006-08-24 04:56:11 · answer #8 · answered by Rice Whore 3rd 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, I have to say that I am blunt and straight to the point. I have said: 'Don't you have something better to do right at this moment'?
2006-08-24 05:07:02 · answer #9 · answered by cheeky_beth_62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i ask the girl if she wants a drink and then to dance....i like it when ppl say my man is hot it make me feel lucky to have him even more....
2006-08-24 06:38:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋