anyone who can advice me for my interview?????

Question

I am an Asian married to a british, I've been here in UK for over a year now, I've been looking for a job but I've been disheartened since I always been turned down for a lot of times. I am not confident when it comes to Interview it gives me butterflies in my stomach because I always get out of words on the interview, I know my english is not good enough, do you think this is the reason why I am always turned down on my interview??, does anyone who can advise me what best to do for the interview???? I would really appreciate your answer, Thank you!!!

I would like to add one of the reason why I failed most of my interview, everytime I had an interview they usually explain to me about the job and about the company, so I was there just to listen and at the end they ask me if I have question, so I don't know what to say since they explained it to me, I think thats one reason why I failed for the interview!. can you help me what to say and ask if I will be asked that question again???? thanks

Answer 1

Always remember that you are being interviewed because they already think that you can do the job!

If you have trouble relaxing, just try to breathe slowly and deeply before you go in and remember to just be yourself. It's also a good job to remember that to a certain extent, you are interviewing them too, to see if they are the right company for you.

The interviewer may be as nervous as you, too. Try to speak slowly and not to rush what you are saying, that will make you feel alot calmer and if you have an accent, then they will understand you alot more too.

It's always best to research the company too, that way it will show you as prepared and interested in the job. The internet is great for that. It will also give you questions to ask. Never ask about salary or holiday! Ask about the company, ask about their intentions for growth over the next few years and how that would reflect in new opportunities for staff, ask about the level of responsibilities with the job and who you would report to, or if anyone would be responsible to you. These and any other questions that may come come to you as the interview goes.

Always ask if there are going to be second interviews or if they will be deciding after this interview. Ask them when they will be letting you know if you are successful. It's also a good question to ask if they have anything that they are not sure about with you. This will give you an opportunity to counter any objections.

In the end the main thing is don't panic. Use it as a rehearsal for the next interview! It seems that you are getting interviews, so just keep knocking on those doors and someone will want you.

Good luck.

Answer 2

Honestly the person who answered you first is not indicative of the normal british attitudes. The whole British Economy has thrived because our Asian brothers and sisters have worked their socks off for this Country, paying taxes and being model citizens. Sorry for that.

I think the easiest way to tackle this problem is to practice. With a friend, use a tape machine and get some coaching from anyone you know who is good at talking and giving confidence.

The person interviewing you will be looking to see that you have the right skills, and that you are people-friendly. It is not a problem if you are slightly shy - better that than being over-familiar. Wear clothes that you feel comfy in, and sit up straight, smile and look into the interviewers eyes. Say at the very beginiing, "I know I dont invterview well, it scares the life out of me, but Im very very good at what I do, and I take a pride in my work. Produce evidence that you are conscientious or whatever, school reports, some references from community leaders or previous bosses. Good Luck and dont be downhearted! Im sure you will get the job and it would be nice if you could come back and tell us all about it. Blessed Be.

Answer 3

OK, via community education you can study English as a second language, this may help with both your confidence in general and in interviews.
Couple interview tips
1) use flash cards.. just plain post cards or bits of paper, on each one write a heading - for example "why i want this job" list three reasons why you would like the role, again an example would be to say, the Job offers me the chance to build on my skills, I have always had a keen interest in...
Use this cards to just jog your memory, esp if you are nervous
2) say when you get into the interview, please excuse me, I am very nervous - this will let them know that you are not very experienced in interviews and allow them to take this and your honesty into account
3) deep breath, think before you answer a question, do a little research into the company before you go..
4) ask if you donot understand anything you are asked.
good luck, community colleges can also help with interviewing skills and preparation of a CV. the very best mate :)

Answer 4

A good attitude makes up for a lot of weaknesses.
Make sure your interviewer can SEE that you are CHEERFUL and interested in the company and the job. have a positive attitude and let them know that you want to help out .
And remember that even if you dont get the job its not a failure, its just experience so you'll do better next time.
You should be able to enjoy the interview. Its an opportunity to talk about yourself and your goals!

Answer 5

You have to understand that we all feel the same as you do at interviews - no-one likes them at all.

Before your next interview, researchthe employers, their background, what they specialise in and their successes in the past. That will ensure that they know that you are totally interested in them as employers & you will feel ready for their questions.

You will gain more confidence with each interviews.

I also hink that your written english is wonderful - you are doing great for someone who has only been here a year - you can hold your head up high & be proud of yourself.

I also agree with the answer stated preiously, just say to your interviewer that you are improving your english & therfore you could gain something from that particular job as well as the employers gaining your knowledge, experience etc.

Ask you hubby to give you a mock interview, that might also help.

You go for it, stay positive, be proud & you will get that job.

Good luck :-)

Answer 6

Maybe you need to get a book on interview technique, and learn the english for the type of questions they're likely to ask (and the answers you'll be expected to give).

Everyone gets nervous before an interview, you just have to think that you're going in there to be yourself, they'll be able to tell if you're pretending to be someone you're not so you just need to relax and act normally.

For most jobs it's probably highly advisable to go in a suit.

Good luck!

Answer 7

My advice to you, if you don't speak great english, is do NOT pretend you understand something someone says to you if you don't understand it. If you don't understand a question, or aren't properly following the conversation, ask for clarification - the biggest fear an employer will have with regards to your english is an ability to effectively communicate with you. If you just nod and smile politely when you hear something you don't understand, that'll create a huge communication problem. If you're honest and express that you're learning, but had difficulty following something s/he said, they'll respect your honesty and recognize your desire to effectively communicate.

I don't know where you're from in Asia, but the biggest cultural difference I notice between many asian countries and the UK is this idea that it's rude to fail to understand a question or query. It's not considered rude in the UK. If you don't understand a question or direction keep asking for clarification until you do. A potential employer will appreciate that honesty and desire to effectively communicate much more than a polite smile.

Good luck in your interview :)

Answer 8

If you get stuck on words say excuse me but I am still learning English! And practise in front of a mirror, talking to yourself and answering possible questions. This is what I do for my interviews walk in and pretend you are acting like a business woman still be yourself but be as confident and have the body language of a business woman! It really helps I did this for my last 2 interviews and got both jobs, with more money than they were initially advertising!
Good luck!

Answer 9

I'm English and at the end of an interview i still don't have anything to say! from what you have written your English is good a lot better than some. You just need to be a little more confidence by the sounds of it

Answer 10

In the long term I think I would advise working on your English. Maybe you could have some lessons and just talking to lots of native English speakers will help too. Perhaps getting a qualification in English language may help you too. It's good that you want to work and also improve your prospects. Meanwhile, every interview you do is good practice for the next one.

Good luck to you!