listen here. my friend's a girl.(let's just call her nancy). well she loved her bf so much. they both cant seperate even once besides going home and doing their stuff. but they will not loose contact even ocne. but something terrible had change her life. her bf married with d girl that he dont love bcoz his mum doesnt like him to still contact with nancy. but after married, he ranaway to others country,well, i donno where, but didnt bring 2gether his wife. he kinda hates his wife and also his family. n nancy, she really2 loose her appetite until he loose her weight too much. but then, after a few months, his bf came back but not to his family, but to nancy. i found out abt this but just ignore them n donno what to do. but after a few months letter, i get to know that she's pregnant. she's really scared. n now, she doesnt even wanna see her bf or her bf family n her family. she just hidding at some place that i cant tell u guys, but she kinda sad right now. how am i suppose 2 do?
2006-08-23 21:30:55 · 12 answers · asked by annie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
stay out of it
2006-08-23 21:32:50 · answer #1 · answered by Gunpowder Monk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi , Your problem has all the head and no tail
It appears from the face of the problem that the guy she chosed was a complete Jerk and Coward , who cannot fight his family for his girl and secondly that jerk spoiled three lives , his own , his WIfe and now its you ,
There are certain things which you should immediately do :-
A) If you are pregnant enquire how old is the baby in the womb , it is quite safe these days to Abort babies upto 3 months of conception ,
B) Take support of your family \ friends ( i know it is kind of difficult but you need a friend to share your sorrows with .
C) Make sure that you donot meet that guy again no matter what all he says as he is a complete liar , what kind of guy shall leave a girl in middle of nowhere .
D) And pls donot skip your meals as it is your testing time and God is with you , the more darker it is , the closer to the light you are
E) Make sure that you donot take any Extreme step with your lif
2006-08-23 21:51:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if her BF hates his wife so much then just separate..or divorce.. you're probably chinese or asian right?
the least nancy could do is to bring her child up by herself.. she's made a huge mistake in welcoming a married man to her life whether or not the love is still there.. you're her friend.. try to be there for her for moral support.. tell her she can find another man, someone who can take care of her.. my friend's a single mom.. but she's lucky to have found someone who'll take care of her and her daughter.. they've been going out for 3 years.. so maybe nancy will too..
send her my regards
2006-08-23 21:37:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Support her. She needs someone right now. I really don't see the problem. He was made to marry the other woman, there for, it is not a real marriage. There was no love involved. He is not with his wife. If is true the history you say they had, tell nancy to tell him get a divorce and let us get married. Or atleast tell him to get a divorce.
2006-08-23 21:53:18 · answer #4 · answered by carabela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the guy that she is pregnant and that he'd better come up with a good soution to look after her and the baby. All you can really do tho is be there for her and support her the best you can. She has to make her own decisions about herself and the baby.
2006-08-23 21:36:04 · answer #5 · answered by having_a_blonde_day_lol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, first thing is first, nancy muct NOT hide. she and her bf are in love and must raise the childe if they want to. All you need to do is ask the BF to tell his parents that he is divocing with the other female whether they like it or not and he is (or HAs)to marry nancy. Accordint to me, its the best thing to do. Give hell to the BFs parents.......Nancy and BF love and DESERVES a life together....it nice to hear Nancy hs a friend who is concern about her......(Do i get 10 points??!!)
2006-08-23 21:39:11 · answer #6 · answered by ∞¥¡¡ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
support her in any way you can. make sure that she speaks to her family and get the right help.
2006-08-23 22:23:08 · answer #7 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs ur support more than ever, now.
just be there, with her so she feels reassured and slowly come out of trauma.
once she is normal she can decide on her own about wat to do with pregnncy and her bf.
2006-08-23 21:41:58 · answer #8 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dun know about big--but it sure is long--shorten it up and get back to us
2006-08-23 21:33:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea!stay out of it!
2006-08-23 21:34:30 · answer #10 · answered by bianca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋