Because I kind of think I defiantly might be... But I am not real sure...
2006-08-23 21:15:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I answered your other question first. The answer is "Yes" not only is it possible it simply is.
If you genuinely had no interest in women before you went for this gay 2 straight therapy, then you will still have no genuine interest in women. These therapies don't work. They delude. If you continue with your fiancee then you will likely become depressed and have a negative impact on her life and happiness. Best to break it off now.
Do I sound too abrupt and harsh? Sorry for that, but please don't ruin two people's lives - you only have a right to ruin your own.
2006-08-24 04:41:37 · answer #1 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course, take some time out to examine what your feeling and make a decision about what you want to do. If you go ahead with the marriage and then 20yrs or so later decide you are gay you've just wasted the time you could of had as well as your financee's.
2006-08-24 08:57:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to assume you have a fiancee because you were attracted to her so if that's so I say you could be Bi but if your just into guys and you have a fiancee because it's what family and people expect of you then you could be gay. Look it don't matter what you are just be good to yourself and be strong.
2006-08-24 04:21:21 · answer #3 · answered by Buddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men marry cause they think they can "prove" to themselves that they're not gay. Dude, you better put that wedding on hold...go get yourself a hot guy and find out what you prefer before it's too late.
BTW..there really is no "guessing" about it..if you like guys...and doing things with guys..and you know what I mean..you are gay!
2006-08-24 04:31:20 · answer #4 · answered by GoldnHart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Look at Michael Barrymore. Married for many years, then, all of a sudden came out of the closet.
Can't imagine it being fair on your fiancee though.
Please DON'T marry her until you're sure. She'll never forgive you if you do.
2006-08-24 04:26:57 · answer #5 · answered by genghis41f 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how can u be some body's fiance and then think u;r gay because if u choose to get married to a women then it means the is no way u are gay unless u tryedto hide it by pretending to be straight
2006-08-24 09:35:10 · answer #6 · answered by A.K.A SASA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-08-24 07:54:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is , the fact that you have doubts about being straight might mean you have unresolved problems.By getting married dyou are trying to run away from this , and this will sonn catch up to you
2006-08-24 08:41:38 · answer #8 · answered by ashleigh_manyara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you definitely might be.....then you probably are.
Anyone can have a fiancee.
That doesn't make any difference at all.
What you are, you are. A fiancee isn't going to change that.
2006-08-24 09:45:34 · answer #9 · answered by Jake 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeh you can... you can find out at any age whether you have a boyfriend and girlfriend. You need to defently find out whether you are or not before you ruin your relationship with fiancé. Is it possible you could be bi-sexual?? good luck x
2006-08-24 04:17:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋