2006-08-23 20:43:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anastasia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think there are two possibilities:
1. your soon to be ex-husband still loves you even though he has made the sad decision to leave you for another woman.
2. He could be addicted to sex. This is not a totally uncommon disorder. I actually know a few men with this problem. They are into porn books, videos, sound bites, strip clubs, and women other than his wife. He still loves his wife, but he had a problem that is bigger than love.
Also, there is a chance that he truly loves you, and he is feeling that new excitement over this taboo relationship with his mistress (which always makes it seem good, and fun, and exciting). He will probably leave his mistress as well once the new and taboo feeling wears off with her and he moves on to a new and exciting taboo mistress. 9 times out of 10 a man or woman who cheats will cheat again.
And finally, he is not cheating on her with you. You are his wife. PERIOD! Although he has made the sad decision to leave you, he probably still loves you, and in turn likes being near you.
I hope your life after him turns out better. good luck
2006-08-23 21:25:51 · answer #1 · answered by Ðøwñ tø Ëã®th 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks lik ea mistress is asking question here :).
In fact it is his wife he is cheating on with his mistress. Having sex and good relationship with his wife doesn't count as cheating on the mistress. The case would be quite different if it was ex-wife. Dating a married man you can't really count on his not having sex with his wife.
But in a way dating a married man is more convinient - no commitment to him! ;)
2006-08-23 21:39:58 · answer #2 · answered by guldarchaman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he's an idiot and needs to leave his wife if he wants to be with the mistress or leave the wife to be with the mistress.
2006-08-23 20:45:39 · answer #3 · answered by Lonesome Dove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this r fools that they cheat there wife
2006-08-23 20:45:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is addicted to sex and can't get enough with just two women.
2006-08-23 20:45:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a non sensical argument.
2006-08-23 20:45:34 · answer #6 · answered by Jon H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sick how is he cheating ?
2006-08-23 21:09:11 · answer #7 · answered by Linda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coz he's stupid!
Gayle
2006-08-23 20:45:50 · answer #8 · answered by gayle j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she allows him
2006-08-23 20:44:57 · answer #9 · answered by -------- 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋